I want more freedom from my mom!

Q: I just started high school, and I want more independence from my mom! She still treats me the same as she did when I was in fifth grade! I want to be able to hang out with my friends at our town’s hangout spots and going to sleepovers! I want her to stop treating me like a child. Any advice? — Cherry, 14

A: Hey, Cherry! Starting high school is a major transition and we understand wanting more independence. The best thing you can do to earn that independence is to be responsible. Follow rules, do things without having to be asked; in other words, impress your mom! You want her to see that you’re growing up and worthy of independence. We also suggest taking on a new responsibility, like tutoring or a school club — both of which are great ways to impress her. Good luck!