I don’t know how to talk to boys in school!

Q: I don’t know how to talk to boys! There are a lot of cute boys at my school, but I just don’t know how to start a conversation, especially if they don’t know me! What should I do? — Caitlin, 14

A: Hi Caitlin, we feel your pain! Talking to someone you have a crush on can be intimidating, but here’s the big secret: They’re no less awkward than you are! We promise no one in your school is an expert at talking to new people, even if they seem way more confident than you feel. Now, for some actual tips. Start with a simple “hello.” If you’ve never spoken before, go for an easy conversation starter, like asking about homework, a mutual teacher or an after-school activity. Think of it as talking to a new friend, rather than a potential boyfriend. When insecurity kicks in, take a breath. Remember that it’s just a conversation. It’s okay if things are a little awkward. And, like all things, the more you talk, the more comfortable you’ll feel, and the easier it’ll be for you!