Lodi News-Sentinel

How $80 became a life lesson

- By Aneri Pattani

It all started with $80 in a dead woman’s purse.

That’s all Kristina Ulmer had left of her younger sister.

Katie Amodei died in a car crash on October 12, 2014. She was 29 years old.

Ulmer wanted this remnant of Katie’s last night — her final earnings as a waitress — to go toward something good. But what should that be? For four years, Ulmer debated. And she added to the funds: a few hundred from selling a Chromebook and some more from her savings as a ninthgrade English teacher at Hatboro-Horsham High School.

Last winter, as she discussed the book Fahrenheit 451 with her students, it struck her: “What if I could use the money in my class to teach kids to be kind to one another?”

“I wanted my students to experience doing something kind for a stranger and understand that they’re connected with others,” Ulmer, 36, said.

It’s something Katie did all the time — from her charity runs to her certificat­ion as an EMT just months before her death, working to save strangers’ lives.

Ulmer gave each of her 26 students $20 and instructed them to help someone in need or perform a random act of kindness.

“We were all shocked when she pulled out all that money and handed it out,” said Eric Bromberg, a 15-year-old student in Ulmer’s class. “That’s not a type of project teachers do.”

Ulmer told her students about the time a customer ahead of her in line at Starbucks paid for her morning coffee. It was just a $3 drink, but it made her day.

Inspired, Bromberg decided to make someone else’s day. He visited Lancers Diner, a staple for Horsham teens, and ordered a milkshake. When the bill came, he left the $20 as a tip for the waitress, with a note that read, “Happy new year. Spread kindness.”

He never expected to feel such pride and joy in giving away $20.

Maci Lumpkin, 15, felt that rush when she donated the $20 to the school’s library to cover other students’ fines. The money cleared eight students’ debt, including four seniors who would not have been able to graduate with outstandin­g fines.

Sabrina Ibrahim, 15, created care packages for soldiers, hoping to spread the kindness beyond her personal community.

Other students bought fabric and sewed pillowcase­s to donate to people undergoing chemothera­py in the hospital. Some paid for people in line behind them at cafes and pizza shops. One student gave away free doughnuts on the street. Another bought sanitary pads for a homeless woman.

Ulmer has received anonymous donations that allowed her to repeat the project with a new class this semester and will do so again in the fall. She’s set up a fundraisin­g page to keep the project going beyond that.

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