A floral tribute to honor their service
On the first Memorial Day — in 1868, soon after the Civil War — volunteers decorated the graves of Union soldiers with flowers.
The tradition lives on at Los Angeles National Cemetery in Westwood, where for more than a decade Ruben Rocha has organized a group of volunteers who, on the Sunday before Memorial Day, place red and white carnations at the graves of veterans.
This year, about 150 volunteers placed roughly 50,000 pairs of carnations at the cemetery, Rocha said.
The red carnations symbolize the blood soldiers shed; the white ones represent the “peace” they have achieved.
“It’s a lot of work, but at the end of the day, it’s all worth it,” said Rocha, 67, a director of studio operations at Sony Pictures Studio in Culver City.
Rocha’s family has a long
history in the military.
He served in the Marines as an infantryman from 1975 to 1984. His older brother Robert Salas Rocha was an infantryman in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War who died while on a reconnaissance mission in 1970. Their oldest brother, Rudy, was also a Vietnam War veteran, an artilleryman.
Both Rudy, who died in
2018, and Robert are buried at the cemetery, Ruben said.
“This place means a lot to me and my family,” he said of the cemetery, with its thousands of simple, white gravestones, visible from the 405 Freeway. “I consider all of these men and women that are buried here as part of our extended family now.”
Ruben started the volunteer group 12 years ago with about 1,000 pairs of carnations. By 2019, the group grew large enough to cover the more than 80,000 gravestones at the cemetery.
The pandemic halted the work in 2020 and 2021. But Rocha said the group is growing again, with help from his co-workers at Sony who are inviting others to volunteer.
“We also invite their kids to come in as well,” he said. “Because I believe it’s a great learning time for them, so they can understand why we live in a free land.”
Sony and NBCUniversal are among the companies that helped pay for the carnations, which this year cost more than $15,000, Rocha said.
He instructs the volunteers to read each name at the grave as they deliver the flowers and to thank the soldiers for their service.
The volunteers easily get hooked.
“If I can get you here one day,” Rocha said, “you’ll be coming every single year thereafter, I promise.”