Remembering a beloved Marin public servant

I am writing to honor the life of my good friend, Thomas Anthony “Ace” Odetto Sr. — a true public servant.

Ace, who died last month, was a man who unswervingly devoted his life to the citizens of Marin for approximately 25 years as law enforcement for the Marin Sheriff's Office and the Fairfax Police Department. The manner in which he practiced his profession would serve as a great model for any officer in training. Indeed, this profession needs more people like him. Public service is part of the family tradition. His younger brother, Matt Odetto, was a highly esteemed police chief in both San Rafael and Tiburon.

On Feb. 23, on what would have been his 70th birthday, several hundred honored Tom Odetto in a memorial service at St. Rita's Church in Fairfax. All came with full hearts to honor an individual devoted to others. The many stories that were told were full of love and gratitude. He served Marin with care, compassion and dedication.

He was a public servant, father of four, coach, mentor and true friend to all. He gave his whole being to many, saving what little was leftover for himself. He was also the most big-hearted father I have met. He would do anything for his children at the drop of a hat.

In our world today, there are few who are so devoted to serving fellow mankind. He was a rare breed among men. He was my true friend who always knew how to give much better than he received. Countless stories reflect his true public service. I wish the world had more people like Tom

“Ace” Odetto. We would be all better off.

If I could talk to him now, I would say, “Rest in peace with the legacy you left. You will never be forgotten. I love you, my brother.”

— Steve Bendinelli, Tiburon