Miami Herald (Sunday)

Friend ‘sells’ hallucinog­enic therapy with a lot of pressure

- CAROLYN HAX WORD GAME UNIVERSAL CROSSWORD KENKEN

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Put greater emphasis on partnershi­ps, personal matters and the changes you want to make. Consider how you earn your living and what you can do to make your lifestyle better and easier for you and your loved ones. Make decisions based on the way you feel and what satisfies you.

PISCES

Feb. 19-March 20: Spend more time preparing for the future and less time distracted by challenges and harmful interferen­ce. Focus on what you want and head in that direction, regardless of the obstacles you encounter. 3 stars one. I’m successful in my career, and colleagues are always surprised to learn there’s an undercurre­nt of anxiety fueling my work.

My friend has talked repeatedly about how abnormal my anxiety is and asks why I would accept this state. But other women I know also confess that anxiety plays a significan­t role in propelling them forward — deemed perfection­ism, I’d guess. I don’t know any different, and I’m not an unhappy person.

This friend has asked almost once a week if I’ll join her in a session. She even offered to pay for it. I feel like I’m in a used-car dealership with a highpressu­re salesperso­n. I say I’m open to learning more but it’s not something I feel is necessary. ship shire sire spar spare spear spire

ARIES

March 21-April 19: Share with people who have as much to contribute as you do, and you’ll come up with ideas that will help you advance. Favors offered will tempt you, but find out at what cost. 3 stars

TAURUS

April 20-May 20: Don’t waste your time fighting a losing battle when you have so much to gain if you put your time and effort into something positive. Work alongside people who share your beliefs. 5 stars

GEMINI

May 21-June 20: Let your intelligen­ce lead the

She has great qualities as a friend, but she is known to be judgmental. I haven’t figured out how to safely navigate a clear response to her. Can you help me?

— Pressured

Pressured: Why is it “safe” for her to intrude into your psychic business on a weekly basis, but not “safe” for you to insist she stand down?

It does not matter whether you have anxiety, whether you’re normal, whether you’re happy.

It does not matter whether this treatment would help you.

It does not matter whether your friend is judgmental.

The answer is the same about any recommenda­tion by anyone about anything. way. If you follow your heart, you are likely to be disappoint­ed by the outcome. Keep your secrets to yourself. Protect against insult, injury and illness. 2 stars

CANCER

June 21-July 22: Home improvemen­ts are favored. Be creative, do the work yourself and include family in the project; it will make the outcome that much more enjoyable. Share a little romance with someone you love. 4 stars

LEO

July 23-Aug. 22: Don’t make a fuss or get involved in something you don’t believe in or want

Your life, your right to say no.

Being “open to learning more,” meanwhile, is more yes than no. So say no unequivoca­lly: “I have heard you and thought about it, and my answer is no.”

Dear Carolyn: So someone sent our son a pretty awful book through an online retailer — I’m guessing another teen because it relies on gross-out humor and the f-word for its hilariousn­ess — and while we are not prudes, this is terrible. And our kid claims to have no idea who would send it. My inclinatio­n is to ignore it and see if another kid owns up, but my husband wants to know who sent it — although there is nothing to do. We’re not going to yell at whoever it to do. Partner with people who share your interests and concerns, and you will make a difference that encourages the lifestyle that suits your needs. 4 stars

VIRGO

Aug. 23-Sept. 22: Gather informatio­n. Communicat­e with friends, relatives and people you look up to, and you’ll get an education that will help you improve your life and your relationsh­ip with someone you love. A promise made will lead to a new beginning. 3 stars

LIBRA

Sept. 23-Oct. 22: Home improvemen­ts are favored as long as you is. Just ignore, right?

— Anonymous

Anonymous: Yes, but you’re not the one who needs persuading.

So, Husband: For parstay within your budget. Moving things around to accommodat­e a lifestyle change will help ease stress and encourage a better attitude. 3 stars

SCORPIO

Oct. 23-Nov. 21: Refuse to let someone interfere in your personal affairs. When it comes to home and dealing with a meaningful relationsh­ip, be true to yourself and honest with the person you love. 3 stars

SAGITTARIU­S

Nov. 22-Dec. 21: Discord will unfold if you or someone else isn’t honest regarding feelings, intentions or promises made. If you are uncertain, be ents, teen years deliver the white-knuckle ride of waning influence and life-ordeath importance. Don’t waste dwindling parental capital on relative trifles like this.

Dear Friendly: You can certainly do that. It has worked for you so far. However, if you would like to know the employees’ names, just say that you are “terrible with names, and embarrasse­d to even have to ask after all this time, but ... what is your name? My name is (insert name).”

Dear Abby: I’m getting married next month, and I’m so nervous. What can I do to not be scared? — Cold Feet in Florida

Dear Cold Feet: I wish you had been more forthcomin­g about what you are worried about.

Is it the wedding ceremony and your wedding day? If that’s the case, have faith that you and your fiance will make it through together because you WILL. Is it your wedding night? A talk with your doctor should allay your fears.

Is it that you are unsure about the person you are marrying? If that’s the case, postpone the wedding and schedule premarital counseling for you and your intended. In some religions, the clergy recommend this type of counseling so issues like money and child-rearing can be discussed and not cause serious problems later. upfront and discuss your concerns. 2 stars

CAPRICORN

Dec. 22-Jan. 19: Money matters look promising. Invest more in something you want to pursue. Partner with someone who can help you excel. An offer will help you make a decision. 5 stars

AQUARIUS

Jan. 20-Feb. 18: Put your energy into personal financial gains, fitness, well-being, dedication and commitment to someone you love. Keep moving forward until you reach your goal. 3 stars

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