What is acceptable

The true meaning of graduation

Graduation is one of the most anticipated moments of a student’s career. It goes beyond just walking on the stage and waiting for a diploma with your name on it. Graduation means waking up every day for 13 years at 6 a.m., running behind the bus because you were late, feeling embarrassed on the first day of school. Graduation is jumping for joy because you were able to get an A+ on that exam that you never thought you’d pass. It’s befriending not only your classmates, but also your teachers, administrators, cooks or school cleaners.

Because graduating is not just seeing your name on paper. It is creating a family with people you never thought you’d meet. People from other parts of the world, who do not even speak your language or share your religion, but despite everything you have something in common. They are there for the same reason as you: to be someone in the future.

Graduating goes beyond all those frustrating moments of being unable to sleep because you had to study for an exam. It is running to your house to see your mom and tell her the things you did at school, tell her that your teacher chose you as the student of the week, tell her that each task was important because someday she will see you go up on that stage to receive that sheet with a stamp. Because that is what being a student is, just a role. What really matters are all those moments that you lived.

Everything we did for 13 years was not just to wear a cap and a gown. It’s that all our efforts, and those of our parents, are reflected in us. Graduating is finding yourself, and without realizing it forming a new family. And although at the moment it is hard to accept that we will not be able to have a ceremony as I would have liked, it is important to know that we have the best memories stored in our hearts.

Pablo Toledo Senior, West Haven High School

For our president, it was “not an acceptable answer.” He was referring to a cautionary opinion — from a foremost medical expert based on years of training and decades of experience — that children, in particular, may not be safe from the lethal and other severe effects of COVID-19. He prescribed a healthy dose of caution. He knows of what he speaks, and is aware of the limits of his and our knowledge. “I am very careful, and hopefully humble in knowing I don’t know everything about the disease,” he testified to our Senate. What he and other medical experts know is more than enough to dictate caution.

For the ship’s captain the advice was unacceptable. The navigator cautioned the captain that he might want to consider a change of course as there was a risk of icebergs ahead. “Unacceptable” declared the captain. “This is the finest ship on the seven seas, the best ever. We have a standard to set and a course to keep. Stay the course and full speed ahead!”

Thoughtful caution and humility are “unacceptable”? Really?

Paul Thomas New Haven