Psychologists say sports withdrawl normal

For the first 48 hours, back in March, Gary Politzer could barely move off his couch. A feeling he could not quite understand paralyzed him, even if he knew the reason behind it was frivolous: He couldn’t watch sports anymore.

Politzer describes himself as a “24/7 sports fanatic,” a single guy who plays in multiple fantasy baseball leagues and even more fantasy football leagues. When The Players Championship golf tournament was canceled because of the novel coronavirus outbreak, Politzer realized his life-shaping hobby would be erased. There would be no Las Vegas trip for March Madness, no Baltimore Orioles opening day to “suffer” through and no bingeing The Masters at his Arlington, Virginia, home over his 40th birthday weekend.

“I don’t know if it was grief or what,” Politzer said. “I feel like withdrawal is not a bad way to characterize it.”

Sports withdrawal is not a concept with a body of research behind it, because the current cessation of games has no precedent. But both fans and experts agree it is a legitimate byproduct of the pandemic for the sports-crazed population, which is a large portion of American society. Nearly 60% of Americans identify as sports fans, according to Gallup’s most recent poll. Live sports dominate the top of television ratings. The big four professional sports — baseball, basketball, hockey and football — sold more than 125 million tickets last year.

The country has churned on without spectator sports, notwithstanding a UFC fight here and a charity golf match there, for more than two months. The absence of games should feel trivial against the scale of suffering wrought by the coronavirus, yet it lingers as a low-frequency ache.

Politzer, like other fans interviewed for this story, recognizes and supports why sports have stopped. He has not discussed his longing for sports with friends because he worries it will sound callous and stupid. A certain level of privilege is a prerequisite for feeling sports withdrawal. Yet it is undeniably there.

“Am I being a jerk because I want to see opening day baseball?” Politzer said. “I haven’t talked to people about not seeing opening day, fantasy baseball, Capitals games, Wizards games. But it feels like this big, empty sort of hole. We all have these holes in our lives now. One of which is missing sports.”

Experts said they would expect fans to experience legitimate feelings of withdrawal, or even potentially depression, from the absence of sports. Dan Forsyth, a social psychologist who teaches at the University of Richmond, said studies have shown suicide rates are higher in cities after its football team loses.

“That’s pretty clear evidence people have tied sports to their psychology,” Forsyth said.

Even as sports fans intellectually understand the inability to watch games, they struggle with it. “Coping is about the word I would use,” said Brian Hess, executive director of the nonprofit Sports Fans Coalition. “I’m getting by. I find myself rooting for anything that I can.”

“It’s the loss of something you love,” Eric Zillmer said, a neuropsychology professor at Drexel University. “I can tell you as a clinical psychologist, the biggest threat to your ability to function is loss.”

Zillmer spends an inordinate amount of time mulling the connection between sports and one’s mental state: He is also Drexel’s athletic director and a full-throated Philadelphia sports fan, meaning he has a good idea for why losing sports means so much at a time it should matter so little.

“It’s multidimensional and it’s complex,” Zillmer said. “Otherwise, we would be able to replace it, wouldn’t we?”

Victoria Edel, a 27-yearold New York Mets fan, has been watching “Survivor” with her family; when she chided her brother for suggesting prop bets on the show, he responded, “This is the only thing we have!”

Garrett Hylton, a 35-yearold Chicago White Sox devotee and NBA obsessive from Wells, Nevada has filled extra time by watching video game streams. Typically, he would be recording games to watch them late at night. “Now I’m watching people shoot aliens in the head,” Hylton said. “That’s been rough.”

The inability to replace sports has allowed fans to reexamine why they’re so powerful. Sports is a means of social connection, a way of organizing the world, a marker of time. “A unifying distraction,” Hess said. The

Masters means spring, day baseball means it’s the weekend and the tip-off of a Warriors-Rockets playoff game means it’s getting late.

“It gives a nice rhythm to things,” Edel said. “If it’s 7, we’ll put on the Mets. It gives a nice structure, and it’s weird to not have that structure of the Mets.”

The unsettled feeling sports fans are experiencing is called anomie, said Jeffrey Montez de Oca, director of the Center for the Critical Study of Sport at the University of Colorado, Colorado Springs. It means normlessness. At their core, sports are “really, really powerful ritual moments,” Montez de Oca said, and losing them can be profoundly unmooring.

“There’s no inherent meaning or order to the universe, but humans as creatures need meaning and we need order,” Montez de Oca said. “So we create it. One of the key ways we create it is through the construction of rituals. Rituals provide us meaning, and that meaning provides us comfort. It’s the opposite of anomie.”

The meaning attached to sports make them more powerful than typical routines. Sports serve both as common ground for strangers and bonds for friends. They create extended family networks, and “that’s been taken away from us at the precise moment we need strong social networks the most,” Zillmer said.

“If you’re a real fan, you have these parasocial relationships,” Edel said. “It’s not ‘How are the Mets doing this year?’ It’s ‘How are we doing this year?’ It does make you feel like you’re part of this larger club.”