Life’s a gay whirl forr Fran

FRAN Drescher was honored Tuesday at the Stone wall Community Foundation Vision Awards and Awards and thanked everyone including her “gay exhusband." Honored for her advocacy, she quipped, “I have a gay art dealer, a gaydermatologist— not to mention my hairdresser. I have a gay exhusband! People eople always say to me [ of her ex], ‘ How did you not know?’ He loves decorating and fashion and clothes, but we actually did have sex a lot. I didn’t know at the time, though, that in his mind he was he was f king the bartender at Olive Garden.” rden.” Drescher was wed for 21 years to Peter Marc arc Jacobson,Jais now who came out after they split and is now her “best friend.” “Now I’m actually married ried to this wonderful sophisticated straightman[ [ Shiva Ayyadurai] who loves taking off my clothes, es, that PETA picks out for me,” she said. Also honored: Kehinde Wiley and Maneesh K. Goyal l, at the Tribeca Rooftop soiree hosted by Bevy Smith mith.