Orlando Sentinel (Sunday)

The victim label

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I arrived on the island of Grenada in January 1979, just in time for their first revolution. Maurice Bishop brought the Cubans and communism to Grenada.

Over the months and years that I lived there, I noticed something that he did not bring to Grenada, and that was hope. Every holiday was called something like Bloody Monday or Murderous Friday. The celebratio­ns in Grenada were not happy celebratio­ns and I knew in time that people would not be able to live forever in that environmen­t.

I often think back to Grenada when I hear about the #MeToo movement and the victimhood basis of intersecti­onalism.

Beliefs that make being a victim a good thing are, in my opinion, very bad. When a person thinks of themselves as a victim, it does not give them strength or hope.

Yes, people are victimized all of the time, but you do not have to believe that for the rest of your life you are defined as a victim.

I was born a woman, but no matter what kinds of difficulti­es that presented to me in my profession, I was not going to tolerate sexual harassment in any form, even if that meant getting a lawyer when I needed to on more then one occasion.

Instead of people looking at how they can be labeled a victim, how about looking at what makes you a wonderful human being and being proud of that? Because in the end, people are not going to remember what kind of victim you were, but what good things you accomplish­ed during your lifetime. Shari Yudenfreun­d-Sujka Winter Park

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