For Women’s History Month, learn from past to focus on future
When I think about Women’s History Month, I think about the past, present and future. I think about the many women before me who fought courageously to be seen more than just property; those who fought for our right to vote, fought for changes in the workplace, and fought for body autonomy.
I also think about the present. I think about the bitter divides in our country that have us focusing on culture wars at the expense of all minority groups. I see women losing freedom over their bodies, and choices being ripped away. I see mothers trying to make their way back into the workplace but find that staying home is less expensive.
Yet, I also see strong courageous women-warriors, raising strong, loving children; women who are piecing together child care and work; women who are standing up courageously to voice concern against book bans, and targets against the LGBTQ community; women helping other women reach new heights in their career. I see and think about it all.
Lastly, I think about the future. I think about my 3-year-old daughter, and what type of world I will leave behind for her. I wonder if she will live in a society that empowers her to pursue her dreams in and outside of the home. Will she have the resources needed to provide child care for her children, while she pursues her passions as well? Will the company she works for pay her fairly? Will they offer payment for maternity leave? Will society start prioritizing better maternal and child-care benefits, as well as overall family leave and care? Will society stop targeting minority groups in an effort to gain attention? Can we continue living in the state of Florida, knowing that it is becoming less safe for the LGBTQ community, the Black community, and women overall? What messages will my son and daughter continue to hear if we stay here?
This year’s Women’s History Month has brought up a lot of fear and emotion. I want to celebrate the strong women in my life, those who fought for our rights, and continue fighting for equity and inclusion today; yet, I have been realizing the very real obstacles that we face in our society. In all, I am reminded that the work is not done. If I want a more promising future for my daughter, and all girls all over the world, I need to be involved today. I need to know what policies are being made that affect us; I need to vote in every election; I need to advocate for changes.
We all have a part to play to ensure equity and inclusion for all. Let’s start today for a better tomorrow.