Rebukes come fast and furious for breaching rules of distancing
As norms keep shifting, it poses a dilemma for some
The chairman of Arizona’s Asian Chamber of Commerce didn’t see much downside to attending a small dinner at a local restaurant to bolster the business and bring together other leaders to discuss how to help Asian-American eateries devastated by the coronavirus.
That was, at least, until he posted about it on Instagram. The feedback was swift from people who were appalled that Ryan Winkle would promote a gathering — even a small one — as COVID-19 raged and entire cities were urged to self-isolate.
“I started getting some messages saying, ‘Hey, why are you trying to spread the virus?’ I was like, ’It’s a small event, and everyone had washed their hands, and they had sanitizer on the tables,’” Winkle said of the dinner held Saturday in Mesa. “My thinking is always about the economics. Imagine when all these businesses shut down. That’s a whole different problem.”
“Quarantine shaming” — calling out those not abiding by social distancing rules — is part of a new and startling reality for Americans who must navigate a world of rapidly evolving social norms in the age of COVID-19. As schools close and shelter-in-place orders sweep across the U.S., the divide between those who are stringently practicing self-isolation and those who are still trying to go about some semblance of a normal life has never been more clear. Complicating matters: What was socially acceptable even 48 hours ago may now be taboo, as government officials race to contain the virus with ever-expanding circles of social isolation.
For those who must go to work, the divide is widening too.
Steve Diehl, who is considered an essential employee at his job at a warehouse near Chicago, wears a mask to work because a family member has a compromised immune system.
“I started getting some messages saying, ‘Hey, why are you
trying to spread the
He’s terrified of catching the new coronavirus or transmitting it to his loved one at home.
Diehl posted a sign at the warehouse entrance asking people to put on masks that were provided “to protect immuno-compromised family,” but several coworkers didn’t wear them, he said. One of them coughed into his hand while standing by Diehl’s desk — and then began to touch things on his desk with the same hand.
“That angered me greatly,” said Diehl, who posted a photo of himself in a mask on Twitter. “And when I made a comment about it, they shrugged it off.”
Others who are trying to juggle working from home while caring for kids who are also home are making smaller and more mundane choices that nevertheless bring shocked responses — or even rebukes — from co-workers, friends and even family. Is it OK to run out for a coffee? Can you allow your children to go the playground? What about sending kids to day care centers, which remain the only lifeline in many states that have closed schools?
Paula Flakser, who lost her bartending job when California’s Mammoth Mountain ski resort closed this week, said she was upset by the hundreds of people who flocked to her tiny hometown of Bishop, Calif., from Los Angeles and other large cities to vacation the minute schools shut down. The 42-year-old climber posted angry messages about the crowds on Facebook and was quoted in an online climbing magazine, Thundercling.
So many people descended on a climbing spot called Happy Boulders over the weekend that lines of people were walking into the narrow canyon. The routes to reach the top mean dozens of people were grabbing the same handholds in the rock again and again, potentially spreading germs, she said.
By Wednesday, the crowds had abated, but “this weekend will be the true barometer,” Flakser said.
Her concerns echo those who slammed St. Patrick’s Day revelers who flooded bars in Chicago and New Orleans and those who called out college students who’ve been thronging to beaches for spring break.
Jeff Carreras, owner of Tracey’s Original Irish Channel Bar in New Orleans, said he faced scathing criticism over the crowds outside his bar Saturday. People on Facebook accused him of raking in money while disregarding warnings about the dangers of crowds during the outbreak.
Carreras kept the crowd inside below its 250 capacity and didn’t set up an outside bar — but crowds formed anyway. It was the bar’s idea to have police break them up when his staff couldn’t do it, “There’s no way I would entice, encourage the public to come out and spread a virus that’s as bad as it is,” he said. “We did everything we were asked to do.”
Despite warnings from government officials to take caution and self-distance because of the coronavirus pandemic, many college students, some from Coastal Carolina University, were hanging out on the beach in close proximity of one another Thursday in Myrtle Beach, S.C.
A marquee outside the Lake Theater & Café in Lake Oswego, Ore., outside Portland, reminds people of rules on COVID-19 and social distancing.