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Run into the arms of tomorrow

- Lynn Gendusa of Roswell is the author of “It’s All Write with Me!” Essays from my heart. She can be reached at www. lynngendus­a.com.

As I sat in the lobby of a hotel recently while visiting my daughter and granddaugh­ter in Florida, I had the pleasure of seeing a family reunited.

The grandmothe­r was sitting near me when her three small grandchild­ren rushed through the lobby doors. The little girls ran as fast as they could, jumped into her arms as tears formed in her eyes. Her daughter followed the racing girls and embraced her mother for far more than seconds.

Their happiness overwhelme­d me, and I found myself smiling from ear to ear underneath my mask. Who knows how long it had been since their last embrace, the last sound of children squealing as they ran to Grandma’s open arms? However, as of that moment, the distance and longing for a family finally ended.

I recall years ago when my now 16-yearold granddaugh­ter was young and flew to Atlanta for visits, she would run as fast as she could into my arms. There is no better feeling in the world than to know you are loved by an innocent child. The exuberant affection little children proudly display is a beautiful moment in time that we all too often do not appreciate.

Before we know it, the grandchild is grown, and the grandmothe­r is gone. What remains is the memory of a love that has left an indelible mark within our souls. Perhaps, our COVID isolation taught us to be more thankful for our time together, our reunions, our hugs, laughter, and our loves.

The virus took away so much for so many. I have always said when we go through challengin­g times in our lives, we come through hardship one of two ways. Either we will be filled with resentment that we endured such pain, or we are filled with gratitude and relish the fact we survived.

Our love is intensifie­d when we choose to forge forward with hope. Our faith becomes more crucial if we choose to see God in all things. Living becomes more joyful if we choose to not succumb to bitterness. We become like the child whose love is racing into open arms without fear of rejection.

Those who put others first during this crisis, instead of personal ideology, teach others to persevere through adversity. They are the ones who will lead us to a healthier tomorrow and put us in touch with our better selves. These unselfish souls should be heralded as the light of the world, the gatekeeper­s, and torchbeare­rs for our children.

I do not know about you, but I am tired of the anti-this and that, the egos, the selfishnes­s, the fights, the nasty anger, and the hate. What good is it to welcome a new day when we are still stuck in the anguish of yesterday? What innocent child would rush to such behavior?

We, instead, must be grateful we are still here to savor a tomorrow. There are 2.7 million people in our world who will never greet another day, yet only a year ago were embracing their families. Instead of complainin­g about how horrible life is, maybe we should be applauding the ability to simply breathe.

As I drove home from Florida, tears welled in my eyes as they always do when I leave my family. Since my children live in other states spread across the country, I often feel sorry for myself that I cannot see them more often. While other grandparen­ts complain about their children not coming for Sunday dinner, I just pray to soon see mine again on some unknown future day.

After we traveled a few miles, the tears quickly dried. This time I relished those moments with the 16-year-old who no longer runs into my arms and the daughter who is in the busy, difficult time of life caring for a teenager. Before COVID, I would cry for a whole day; now, why spend a day in tears? I would rather not waste any days.

I feel I owe it to those who do not have another day to make my days count for good. I choose a better tomorrow instead of a bitter tomorrow. I will ask God to forgive my errors as I forgive others. I pray for the guidance to forge a path for those who once ran into my arms.

Hugs, smiles, touches, family, and friends are the joy of my life, and how blessed I am to live another day to treasure them all. After a year of difficulty, I choose to be like the child who runs with wild abandonmen­t towards tomorrow with open arms.

Mrs. Helen Peugh Johnson, age 89, of Rome, GA, passed away on March 12, 2021, at her residence.

Mrs. Johnson was born in Floyd County, GA on March 21, 1931, daughter of the late John W. Peugh and the late Annie Mae Willis Peugh. In addition to her parents, she was also preceded in death by her husband, Bob L. Johnson, by her sister and brother-in-law, Gloria and Larry Belcher, by brother-in-law, Raiford Gentry, and by a nephew, Steve Gentry. Mrs. Johnson was a graduate of Mchenry High School. Before her retirement, she worked 34 years as a Supervisor of the Fund &RQWURO 2I¿FH DW WKH *HRUJLD Department of Labor. She was a member of the Internatio­nal Quota Club, the Floyd Hospital Auxiliary, and Pleasant Valley North Baptist Church.

Survivors include her sister, Anne Gentry, Summervill­e; her brother, Ray Peugh (Shirley), Armuchee; 6 nieces & nephews, Todd Peugh, Melissa Howard (Cleveland), Tommy Gentry (Wendy), Greg Gentry (Jana), Nicole Swiger (Mike), Neal Belcher (Heather), and Susan Gentry; numerous great-nieces and great-nephews.

Funeral services will be held at 4pm on Sunday, March 21, 2021, in the gazebo at Oaknoll Memorial Gardens with the Rev. Clyde +DPSWRQ RI¿FLDWLQJ 6RFLDO distancing guidelines will be followed.

The family will receive friends on Sunday from 2:30pm until 3:30pm at Henderson & Sons Funeral Home, North Chapel. Social distancing guidelines will be followed, and masks are requested.

Pallbearer­s are asked to assemble at Henderson & Sons Funeral Home, North Chapel, on Sunday by 2:15pm and Include: Todd Peugh, Cleveland Howard, Tommy Gentry, Greg Gentry, Mike Swiger, Neal Belcher, Michael Swiger and Drake Swiger.

,Q OLHX RI ÀRZHUV WKH Idpily requests memorial donations be made to “GA 2-Day Walk for Cancer” at 270 Carpenter Drive, Suite 515, Atlanta, GA 30328.

Henderson & Sons Funeral Home, North Chapel, has charge of funeral arrangemen­ts.

A new study that looks at the presence of coronaviru­s antibodies in nearly 62,000 life insurance applicants found that before the devastatin­g holiday surge, the number of asymptomat­ic or undiagnose­d coronaviru­s infections in the U.S. may have been twice as high as the official tally of cases overall.

The findings, published Tuesday in the journal JAMA Network Open, indicate that there were millions more asymptomat­ic and undiagnose­d people than experts had realized — and suggests the pandemic could have been far more pervasive than it first appeared.

“The overall number of

SARS-COV-2 infections in the U.S. may be substantia­lly higher than estimates based on public health case reporting,” the study authors wrote.

When it infects human hosts, SARS-COV-2 can cause moderate to severe cases of COVID-19. In the U.S. alone, it has resulted in more than 535,000 deaths. But in many people, an infection can come and go while causing minimal or even no discernibl­e symptoms.

That may be a good thing for those individual­s, but it’s dangerous for communitie­s, through which the virus can spread undetected. Indeed, a modeling study in January determined that asymptomat­ic individual­s are responsibl­e for more than half of coronaviru­s transmissi­on.

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Marcus Yam/los Angeles Times/tns After making a finger prick to draw blood from a patient, Hannah Veal places the blood on the antibody testing device at a drive through testing site in a parking lot behind the Westside Walk-in Clinic in Los Angeles on May 7.

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