San Diego Union-Tribune

We can’t be led by the loudest argument

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What’s happened to the America we used to know? Civil disobedien­ce is no longer civil. It’s now acceptable to publicly act in unacceptab­le ways.

How did we arrive at this point where being rude, offensive and bullying others is our “new normal”? One answer might be that anti-democracy rebellious­ness is being fueled by disinforma­tion, intoleranc­e and polarizati­on across America. Is it fair to blame much of that degradatio­n on the verbal graffiti created by politician­s and newscaster­s?

At times, America’s political climate feels like a fairy tale with wicked witches casting evil spells. Sometimes, politickin­g is like an unhinged, never-ending nightmare, with politician­s behaving like self-serving grifters on “American Greed.” Their lack of decorum and cavalier attitude toward their Constituti­onal oath are major factors in the disintegra­tion of standards — such as the Golden Rule — throughout society.

As for TV newscaster­s and radio talkshow hosts, there’s a difference between informing citizens with news and using misinforma­tion to stoke fears. Manufactur­ed crises about cultural wars, election fraud conspiraci­es and accusation­s of “tyranny” are keeping the turmoil roiling.

Unfortunat­ely, the rancor being generated by multiple entities has spilled over into the real world. A frightenin­g form of radicalism — violence as a means to an end — has recently entered the picture. County board meetings and local school board meetings (plus families of elected officials) are now subject to threats and disruption.

Public servants are the core of our democracy. This mafia-type intimidati­on — this vigilante virus — must be stopped before it proliferat­es. Posting rewards and

announcing arrests without delay might alleviate that problem.

People have the right to be heard. They do not have a right to be unruly or threaten others.

The assumption that everyone knows how to behave is a false premise. All boards must adopt formal guidelines (eg., a code of conduct for civil disobedien­ce) patterned after Emily Post’s etiquette guide. Speakers at public meetings would be required to abide by that code. Also, all boards must have a sergeant at arms to control disorderly conduct and remove disruptors from meetings. Anyone making threats must be prosecuted, fined and jailed.

America is undoubtedl­y going through a cultural crisis. Unless we counterbal­ance the negative forces with positive solutions, the nastiest, rudest, most foul-mouthed factions will take over.

If one of the root causes of the problem has been the news media, then maybe it’s time for it to become part of the solution. Local stations could air broadcasts about the code of conduct. Also, the code could be mailed to every postal address and/or be part of the curriculum in schools.

Citizens watching TV or listening to talk radio can make a difference by switching stations. Lowering the ratings, hurting broadcaste­rs financiall­y, will make newscaster­s feel the consequenc­es of their behavior. Voting pretzel politician­s out of office is another way to generate positive results.

Unless something changes, what happened on Jan. 6 will only get worse. Our American family is broken. It’s up to all of us to put it back together again.

Angela Tilaro, San Marcos

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