FRIENDLY TURKEY SANDWICH STANDS TALL, WITH PILE OF FRESH GREENS AND AVOCADO
If you follow comedian and writer Alison Leiby or pastry chef Natasha Pickowicz on Instagram, you’ve seen it: A sandwich fat as a softball, an explosion of green leaves and sprouts, with a stripe of beige (usually turkey and cheese), a few slices of avocado, and maybe some cucumber or something else with lots of crunch. It’s a salad in sandwich form, and it’s a signature of their long-lasting friendship.
It was late summer 2002 at Cornell University when the two first met on their way to a crew event. “Rowing brought us together, but after that one conversation, I just knew, OK, this person is going to be one of my best friends,” Leiby says.
A year later, when they were both unceremoniously cut from Cornell’s rowing team, they soon realized they had a lot more in common than a desire to speed through water at a steady clip. They shared a major (English), an itch to compare “mundane” details of their lives (“We always know what the other person is having for every meal of every day,” Pickowicz says), and a sandwich style.
They started meeting up for lunch at a campus cafe called Cascadeli, where the sandwiches were big, thick, full of crunchy vegetables and wrapped in white butcher paper before being sliced in half. “It was the kind of sandwich where you could have half for lunch, and it would stay nice and crisp so you could have the other half for dinner,” Pickowicz says.
The two share a dislike for soggy sandwiches, sandwich spreads — “we are not mayonnaise or mustard people,” Leiby says — bread that’s too strongly flavored or textured, and sandwiches with too much meat and cheese.
These sandwich preferences helped strengthen their relationship over the years. From freshman year on, they’d make their ideal sandwich — a bit of thinly sliced turkey, a little cheese, ripe avocado and a mountain of greens — in dorm and group house kitchens. After college, they both eventually ended up in New York City, and kept the sandwich tradition alive in tiny apartment kitchens, always sharing photos and notes on where to get the “good turkey” and the “right bread.”
Today, the two frequently meet for picnics on the beach or in the park, in a backyard or on a rooftop to share food, and often it’s this sandwich, the friendship sandwich, that’s the star of the menu. When they’re apart, they share photos of their sandwiches with each other. Pickowicz even has a photo album on her phone called “friendship sandwich.”
“I always know if Natasha is making anything, but especially a sandwich, I’m going to like it,” Leiby says, “It’s just our style.”
Today, almost 20 years to the day since they first met, the sandwich keeps them close. The two both frequently travel for work and life. When they’re on the road, the sandwich makes appearances on Instagram, with each of them tagging the other in photos and Instagram stories of it, letting the world get a little taste of their friendship, too.
Like a relationship that you need to tend to, this is a sandwich that requires care. It only contains a few ingredients, so the texture and flavor of each matters. Look for roasted turkey that hasn’t been soaked in a salt solution. (Try your local Jewish deli.) Seek out soft rye or semolina bread, so you don’t have to struggle to take the first bite. Layer on the freshest arugula or other lettuce, for maximum crunch. Don’t skimp on