Families fight for acceptance of their transgender children
SANTIAGO, Chile — Monica Flores was returning from a holiday abroad when Chilean police stopped her for questions at the airport. They were bothered that their records didn’t match: She had left the country with a son and returned with a daughter.
Flores had to explain that her 6-year-old registered as a boy identifies as a girl.
“It was a distressing moment. I realized that it was urgent that the different institutions of our country could be trained about trans issues to avoid having children undergo these questionings,” Flores said.
The uncomfortable incident two years ago led Flores and her husband to launch a legal battle for the rights of their daughter — a struggle that has encouraged the families of other trans children to demand greater acceptance and that has fed the broader debate about gender rights in a country so socially conservative that it legalized divorce just 13 years ago.
The family’s efforts led to a landmark decision last year when a judge ordered officials at the civil registry to change the child’s name and gender on her birth certificate — a first for someone so young in Chile.
“This girl’s case touched my heart. I couldn’t allow her to continue living in the wrong body before society,” Judge Luis Fernandez, who ruled in favor of the child, told the newspaper La Tercera.
Fernandez’s ruling so outraged conservative groups that they filed a criminal complaint against the judge. It was thrown out.
At least five other, similar requests for gender registration changes have been filed for minors since Fernandez’s decision.
The center-left government itself has been pushing an array of measures for gender rights, ranging from decriminalizing some abortions under legislation upheld Monday by the Constitutional Court to demanding greater acceptance for transgender people in general and children in particular.
The Education Ministry issued a directive in May urging schools nationwide to protect the sexual orientation and gender identity of student. The antibullying measure urges schools to identify the trans children by their preferred gender. The country’s Catholic schools association has promised to resist the measure.
More broadly, the government is backing a bill that would give adults the right to change the official records of their gender, though the measure has stalled in Congress, facing challenges from the Roman Catholic church and other traditional forces.
Even with the measure still in limbo, a Santiago appellate court in June accepted a transgender adult’s right to change the registry. It said, “Every person has the right to the free development of their personality in accordance with their own determination of gender.”