Man mourned El Paso shooting that killed his wife with the world

EL PASO, Texas — A man who gained worldwide sympathy and support after his wife was killed in a mass shooting in the Texas border city of El Paso was remembered Friday as kind and thoughtful but unable to get over the loss of the woman he loved.

Antonio Basco, 63, died Aug. 14 , just over two years after his wife, Margie Reckard, was fatally shot along with 22 other people by a lone gunman who authorities say targeted Latinos in an attack that stunned the U.S. and Mexico.

Reckard’s August 2019 funeral drew thousands of people from as far away as Arizona and California and across the border in Mexico after Basco announced that he was alone with almost no family left and invited the world to join him in remembering his companion of 22 years. Few in attendance had ever met Reckard.

Flowers poured in, and an SUV was donated to Basco, who made a modest living at washing cars and other odd jobs. The day of his wife’s funeral, a crowd of strangers stood in a line that wrapped around the block to pay their respects. Basco — a wiry, weathered man — embraced one visitor after another with open arms.

Some who were linked to Basco through the tragedy of his wife’s death gathered at his funeral.

Jose Luis Ozuna, a local retiree, said he and his wife met Basco at a makeshift memorial for the victims of the Aug. 3, 2019, shooting and that Basco made an impression. Ozuna said Basco always put others ahead of himself.

So the last time Ozuna saw Basco, who was in tears as he struggled to cash a $300 check without identification, Ozuna said he cosigned the withdrawal.

“We had a real good bond. He was a very loving kind of person,” Ozuna said. “We lost track of him because he lost his phone.”

Adria Gonzalez, an El Paso native who was inside the Walmart during the attack, said she saw Basco deteriorate mentally and physically in the months after his wife’s funeral, amid struggles with alcohol.

Basco was arrested and jailed in late 2019 for driving under the influence.

“He said he missed his wife,” Gonzalez said, “and he wasn’t the same.”

Basco died in a hospital after a monthslong struggle with cancer, according to Roberto Sanchez, a local lawyer handling his estate.