Holiday is full of contradiction
Memorial Day is supposed to be about mourning the nation’s fallen service members, but it’s come to anchor the unofficial start of summer and a long weekend of discounts on anything frommattresses to lawn mowers.
Auto club AAA said in a travel forecast that this holiday weekend could be “one for the record books, especially at airports,” withmore than 42 million Americans projected to travel 50 miles (80 kilometers) or more. Federal officials saidfriday that thenumber of air travelers hadalready hit a pandemic-era high.
But for Manuel Castañeda Jr., 58, the day will be a quiet one in Durand, Illinois, outside Rockford. He lost his father, a U.S. Marinewho served invietnam, in an accident in Californiawhile training othermarines in 1966.
“Memorial Day is very personal,” said Castañeda, who also served in the Marines and Army National Guard, from which he knew men who died in combat. “It isn’t just the specials. It isn’t just the barbecue.”
But he tries not to judge others who spend the holiday differently: “How can I expect them to understand the depth of what I feel when they haven’t experienced anything like that?”
It’s a day of reflection and remembrance of those who died while serving in the U. S. military, according to the Congressional Research Service. The holiday is observed in part by thenational Moment of Remembrance, which encourages all Americans to pause at 3 p.m. for a moment of silence.
The holiday stems from the American Civilwar, which killed more than 600,000 servicemembers — both Union and Confederate — between 1861 and 1865.
There’s little controversy over the first national observance of whatwas then called Decoration Day. It occurred May 30, 1868, after an organization of Union veterans called for decorating war graves with flowers, which were in bloom.
The practicewas alreadywidespread on a local level. Waterloo,
New York, began a formal observance on May 5, 1866, and was later proclaimed to be the holiday’s birthplace.
Yet Boalsburg, Pennsylvania, traced its first observance to October 1864, according to the Library of Congress. And women in some Confederate states were decorating graves before the war’s end.
But David Blight, a Yale history professor, points to May 1, 1865, when as many as 10,000 people, many of them Black, held a parade, heard speeches and dedicated the graves of Union dead in Charleston, South Carolina.
A total of 267Uniontroopshad died at a Confederate prison and were buried in a mass grave. After the war, members of Black churches buried them in individual graves.
“What happened incharleston does have the right to claim to be first, if that matters,” Blight told The Associated Press in 2011.
In 2021, a retired U. S. Army lieutenant colonel cited the story in amemorial Day speech inhudson, Ohio. The ceremony’s organizers turned off his microphone because they said it wasn’t relevant to honoring the city’s veterans. The event’s organizers later resigned.
Someone has always lamented the holiday’s drift from its original meaning.
As early as 1869, The Newyork Times wrote that the holiday could become “sacrilegious” and no longer “sacred” if it focuses more on pomp, dinners and oratory.
In 1871, abolitionist Frederick Douglass feared Americans were forgetting the Civilwar’s impetus — slavery— when he gave a Decoration Day speech at Arlington National Cemetery.
“We must never forget that the loyal soldiers who rest beneath this sod f lung themselves between the nation and the nation’s destroyers,” Douglass said.
His concerns were wellfounded, said Ben Railton, a professor of English and American studies at Fitchburg State University in Massachusetts. Even though roughly 180,000 Black men served in the Union Army, the holiday inmany communities would essentially become “white Memorial Day,” especially after the rise of the Jim Crow South, Railton said.