How can you dream about your loved one?
DEAR BONNIE >> My question is, why would a person not dream of their loved one who has crossed over, and if you do dream of them, they don’t say anything or seem angry? How do you separate them from a real dream or just long to see them in your dream time? Thanks, Laesa
DEAR LAESA >> That’s a very good question that I am often asked when I am giving private readings. Let me start off with why someone wouldn’t have a dream of their loved one after they pass. First, we are in the grieving stages when our loved ones pass to the higher side of life, and that can lower our vibration because we are sad, which is totally understandable.
We are all energy, and our energy affects all of us as it does the spiritual world. To be able to connect to our loved one’s energy and vibration, we need to match their vibration. It’s almost like tuning into your favorite radio station. If it’s not in the correct alignment, and we are not on the correct wavelength, we get a fuzzy connection that is unclear.
When we are grieving and sad, it can make that communication difficult. However, that does not mean that your loved ones who have passed are not close to you because they can be; in fact, they probably are right beside you and helping you as you grieve. They know you love and miss them.
The reason why some people believe they see their loved ones angry or not saying anything to them is usually because of the feeling you have that you have brought into your dreamtime. Anxiety and Fear will make it seem like your loved one is visiting you and they are not happy. I assure you your loved ones in Heaven would never try to make you feel anything but happy and surrounded by their love.
There is a difference between dreaming about a loved one and having a visit from the ones who have passed. An actual visit will seem so much more than a dream. You might hear them talking to you, and you will remember a conversation the two of you are having; the colors are vivid, and there will usually be a reason they are reaching out to you.
I have a video on my YouTube channel called Dream or Visitation if you want to know more about this subject: YouTube https://youtube.com/c/ Mediumbonniepage
I hope this helps answer your questions and please know that if your loved one is in Heaven, they have no anger as they see the bigger picture in life and have a new understanding.
Bonnie Page is a naturalborn fourth-generation medium from her mother’s side of the family. She is available for private sessions by calling her office at (978) 297-9790. If you would like to ask Bonnie a question for her column, please send it to bonnie@bonniepagemedium. com. If you would like more information about Bonnie, please visit her website www. bonniepagemedium.com.