Stamford Advocate (Sunday)

Putting stop to generation­al cycles of abuse

- Suzanne Adam is executive director of the Domestic Violence Crisis Center, which serves lower Fairfield County, including Stamford, Norwalk, Darien, New Canaan, Weston, Westport and Wilton.

When DVCC began in 1980, domestic violence was still considered “a family matter.” Shrouded in secrecy and shame, it was handled “in private,” too often with devastatin­g results for victims. Our organizati­on’s founders and early supporters were among the first to shine a spotlight on this issue locally, and assist victims in finding safety.

ty plan” as a community.

Domestic violence advocates will continue to teach our community, support victims and their children, and send a clear message that we are not going to allow domestic violence to shrink back into the shadows. As community members, every individual can play an important role in helping end the problem of domestic violence. It can start with just a small act — ask a friend if she is OK, attend a free virtual workshop to learn the red flag signs of domestic violence, and let people know how to get help right here in their community. Working together as an informed community we can build a safer, healthier environmen­t for all.

We are standing at a unique moment in time with an opportunit­y for a paradigm shift about domestic violence. People are listening — now it is up to us to lead the way forward. I hope that someday we will look back on domestic violence as an issue similar to the importance of wearing seat belts or the dangers of drinking and driving. Informed communitie­s shifted public thinking and saved lives. With your help, we can do this. We can be that beacon — providing help for those in need. I look forward to working together, to make real progress in preventing domestic abuse for future generation­s.

 ?? Erik Trautmann / Hearst Connecticu­t Media ?? Norwalk Mayor Harry Rilling, right, reads a proclamati­on to representa­tives of the Domestic Violence Crisis Center, including Executive Director Suzanne Adam, left, and the Norwalk Police Department on Oct. 1, 2019, announcing October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month in front of Norwalk City Hall.
Erik Trautmann / Hearst Connecticu­t Media Norwalk Mayor Harry Rilling, right, reads a proclamati­on to representa­tives of the Domestic Violence Crisis Center, including Executive Director Suzanne Adam, left, and the Norwalk Police Department on Oct. 1, 2019, announcing October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month in front of Norwalk City Hall.

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