Say ‘Yes, and ...’ to new opportunities

DearAmy: My 27-year-old daughter, “Zoey,” was just laid off from her IT job out west and nowshewould like to pursue her long-cherished dream of becoming a comedy writer/performer on stage. She has no debt, money in the bank and a good start on her 401(k).

Zoey went the “safe” route and got a computer programming degree and has excelled at everything she has tried. But she is not happy. I support her decision to try something different, butwould like her to get some sound advice. We don’t know where to go, and have decided to turn to you. She is welcome to live here with me in the Chicago area to save some money.

Obviously, we knowit will be an uphill battle with this career change, but I believe that since she’s not married and has no responsibilities (other than herself), this is the best time to try it. Have any ideas?— Zoey’sMom

DearMom: The first rule of improvisational comedy is to respond to on-stage challenges with, “Yes, and” This is your daughter’s “Yes, and” opportunity. None of us really knows what challenges lie ahead, and to some degree life is one lengthy — sometimes comedic — improvisation.

So I’m with you. Zoey should go for it. I might not offer the same advice if she weren’t already solvent, single and with a supportive parent.

Chicago is the best place in theworld to learn, develop and exercise her comedy chops. The Second City empire offers great opportunities for taking classes. The comedy and improv scene provides a vibrant and target-rich environment.

She should get a part-time day job and keep up her IT skills while pursuing her new career.

It can take years to become a self-sustaining performing professional, but I can’t imagine shewould ever regret leaping into this opportunity and responding with a resounding “Yes, and”

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