Drunk driv­ers’ spouses on hook

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Dear Abby: Many wives write you about prob­lems with their hus­bands who drink too much. If they live in a com­mu­nity prop­erty state, there’s some­thing im­por­tant they need to know. If the hus­band drives drunk and causes an in­jury, both the wife and hus­band may be named as co-de­fen­dants – even if the wife wasn’t in­volved. And if the in­jured party is suc­cess­ful in the law­suit, the co-de­fen­dants to­gether must pay.

Wives who tol­er­ate their hus­band’s re­fusal to stop drink­ing need to be aware of the eco­nomic ham­mer the law could have hang­ing over them. I just went through this ex­pe­ri­ence. Had I known the law in our com­mu­nity prop­erty state would lump me in, I would have had a pow­er­ful rea­son to divorce my hus­band years ago af­ter I re­al­ized he would never give up drink­ing. Dear Get­ting: Thank you for teach­ing me and my read­ers some­thing. If some­one has a spouse of EI­THER sex with an al­co­hol prob­lem who gets be­hind the wheel of a car, for their own pro­tec­tion, they should con­sult their lawyer and their in­sur­ance agent about what the ram­i­fi­ca­tions could lead to.

Dear Abby: This has been hap­pen­ing for years, and I would like your ad­vice, please. I like my meat well done. But when­ever I or­der a steak that way, some­one at the ta­ble in­vari­ably has to com­ment that I am ru­in­ing the tex­ture, killing the taste, etc. Red or rare meat dis­gusts me. If I see blood on my plate, I can eat only the well-done parts around the edges. Is there a nice way of telling other peo­ple to mind their own busi­ness and let me or­der my food the way I want it?

Dear Still Mov­ing: Sure there is. All you have to do is smile and say, “That’s my pref­er­ence. This is the way I like it.” Then chow down and change the sub­ject.

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