The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

He gave strangers 200,000 miles so they can go home for holidays

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One winner of his contest this year is Sarah Latham, 33, who had been weighing a painful dilemma: Her grandfathe­r is dying from cancer and lives 1,593 miles from her home in Texas. She knew that if she flflew to New York to see him at Christmas, her family would go into debt to pay for the flflight. If she skipped it, she might never see him again.

“He’s had a long, hard fififififi­fight, and it’s the last opportunit­y I’d have to see him,” Latham said.

Then her husband entered her into Shankman’s contest. With several thousand votes from Imgur users, she became one of fififififi­five winners.

“I’m happy I won because now I have the opportunit­y for one last memory,” she said. “After my dad died, the relationsh­ip I have with my grandfathe­r became even more important than I have words to describe. This is my trip to say goodbye. “

Donated miles also will be used to flfly a couple from Los Angeles to be with their family of 30 in Utah for Christmas, and send brothers who live in San Diego and North Ca rolina to share the ho lidays with their mother for the fifirst time in years.

Shankman will also send a woman with Parkinson’s disease to Georgia with her son to place flflowers on another son’s grave, 11 years after his death. And he’ll flflflflfl­fly a man from Kansas to New Hampshire for a surprise holiday visit with his mother, who had her second heart attack, and his father, who is fifighting skin cancer.

The first year Shankman started his contest, in 2014, he had an assistant select two people from hundreds of applicants who had submitted heart-wrenching stories on his website. A year later, he decided to switch his contest to Imgur, an online image-sharing community, “because it was just too diffificul­t to choose the winners ourselves.”

Thousands of people voted for the winners.

Other frequent flfliers have been donating their miles to his cause. “It makes me happy to know that others who flfly a lot also want to help,” said Shankman, 46.

One of those donors is Rhys Ford, a mystery writer from San Diego who travels thousands of miles every year to attend convention­s and book-signing events.

Ford says her reason for donating her extra miles to Shankman’s “Home for the Holidays” giveaway is simple and heartfelt.

“There are many of us who have so much, and there are others who are far away from their family and can’t make it back for fifinancia­l reasons,” she said.

Shankman, who shares custody of his 5-year-old daughter, Jessica, with his ex-wife, said one of the big pluses of giving away his miles is that it allows him to pass along a lesson about giving.

“It helps show the importance of family,” he said.

Shankman grew up as an only child in New York City with parents who were both schoolteac­hers.

“We weren’t rich, but we never struggled,” he said. “I always felt the warmth of family.”

Diagnosed with attention defificit and hyperactiv­ity disorder in his mid-30s, he decided to channel his energy an d impulsiven­ess into business and learned to look at it as a gift.

“I have massive ADHD, but I believe it’s a huge part of my success,” said Shankman, who published a book last year (his fififth) chroniclin­g his journey, “Faster Than Normal: Turbocharg­e Your Focus, Productivi­ty and Success With the Secrets of the ADHD Brain.”

Shankman’s goal, he said, is to help children and adults with ADHD realize that they’re not broken, but gifted.

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