The Columbus Dispatch

My dad would've been 100 today. How I'm celebratin­g his 25th birthday.

- Your Turn Patty Cohan Guest columnist

Starting with his birth on Feb. 29, 1924 — Leap Day — my dad was unique. If he were alive today, my dad, Pete Jedick, would be 100 years old. We sadly lost him in July of 2004, which means he only had 20 birthdays in his 80 years of life.

Leap Day birthdays are no common thing. According to the Associated Press, worldwide only about 5 million people — roughly 0.06% of the eight billion people on the planet — have a Leap Day birthday.

Being born on Leap Day is far from the only unique thing about my dad. There is so much more. What should be said about a man who was so much like the men of his day yet also so very different?

Do I write about how he went off to fight in World War II alongside his two brothers at the young age of 18? How he parachuted into France on D-day with the 101st Airborne Division? How his service ended as a prisoner of war? How he chose to be kind, generous and tender in spite of that horrific ordeal?

Or do I write about my dad as a father? How he modeled parenting to me and my brothers without even realizing it? How just being in his presence made you feel loved?

I knew growing up that my dad was unique. He worked as an artist in the advertisin­g department for a local grocery store chain. Since our neighborho­od was a stone’s throw away from the Chevy and Ford plants, most of the dads in our neighborho­od worked in the factories and were not eager to get home.

Not my dad. He chose to walk through the door every day at 5 o’clock where my mom had dinner waiting. And after supper, my dad would say “let’s hop in the car” and off we went.

On summer evenings, we were either fishing or swimming at a nearby quarry.

My dad was always putting a small bamboo fishing pole in the water for us, watching for a bite while we explored the piers. In the winter, as the days got shorter and colder, we would either take a quick ride down to the valley for a walk or to the local library to pick up some books.

I always had the ease to explore my surroundin­gs. Even though we had all the freedom and adventure you could want in a childhood, inside many homes it was a different story. Many families suffered from issues of their own — some perhaps rooted in demons dads picked up from the war. That was not the case in our home.

My parents were caring enough to not make my siblings and I the root or the blame of their problems. All three of us went off to college, something that was nearly unheard of in our neighborho­od. Like my dad, I went to art school.

How do I celebrate this unique person who I was lucky enough to call my dad on what would have been the celebratio­n of his 100th year alive — his 25 Leap Day birthday?

Feeling fortunate that I inherited his artistic talents? Appreciati­ng that he showed me the most important thing in life, spending time with his family? I think the latter will do.

Dublin resident Patty Cohan is a retired graphic designer. The Cleveland native worked with Mcgraw Hill Education for 40 years, and now enjoys spending time with her two grandsons.

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