‘Razor sharp wit, lightning smile’
Nathan Davis had been trying to lose weight in hopes he could meet the criteria to donate one of his kidneys. He knew how badly his father needed it.
A car accident cut those plans short and sent Nathan to the University of Tennessee Medical Center with a severe head injury. The 23-year-old died there early Sunday, ending a four-day stretch in which his family hardly left his side.
Exhausted, disoriented and numb, his mother, Julia, went home and fell asleep. Hours later, she awoke to a phone call from a member of the transplant team, who told her the good news: Nathan and his father were a match.
“It’s the most paradoxical thing I can imagine, to be so utterly devastated in one part of your heart and so overjoyed in another part of your heart at the same time,” Julia Davis said. “I can’t describe it, but it was like a trickle of electricity that went through me when he told me that. And it made me cry.”
The evening of Jan. 8, Nathan was the passenger in a car driven by 19-yearold Aaron Dinguss, described by Julia Davis as her son’s friend and roommate. Around 8 p.m., the car was headed east on Beard Valley Road outside Maynardville when it left the road and struck a tree, according to a Tennessee Highway Patrol crash report.
Dinguss is suspected of driving under the influence of drugs and alcohol, according to the report, which says blood tests were requested and criminal charges are pending. Dinguss, who was hurt in the crash, was treated and released from UT Medical Center.
Julia Davis later took to Facebook to share how she learned of the wreck when a police officer knocked on her door at 4 a.m. the next day. How she, her husband, Luther, and their daughter, Gabbie, rushed to the hospital, where a nurse explained in detail the severity of Nathan’s injuries. How she took comfort in believing God had a plan.
“For all those who have spent more than a few minutes with Nathan, you know his quick, razor sharp wit and lightning flash smile; his willingness to accept everyone with due respect and kindness is amazing to me,” his mother wrote.
Indeed, friends and family members described Nathan as friendly, funny and quick-witted, someone who was always willing to put others before himself. He was young and still trying to figure out what he wanted to do in life.
Nathan graduated from Union County High School and moved to Johnson City to attend East Tennessee State University, but later decided college wasn’t for him. According to his Facebook page, he began working in August at Norris Academy, a residential treatment center for children with autism. His mother said he had been looking for another job,
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perhaps something in landscaping.
“He loved being out in nature,” Julia Davis said, adding that Nathan spent a summer working at a Boy Scout camp in Rockwood. “He wanted to work with his hands.” He never got the chance. Nathan’s mother knew he had signed up to donate his organs after his death. What she didn’t know, she said, was that he had been hoping to help his father sooner rather than later.
“Nathan was trying to get himself in a condition health-wise, weight-wise, so that he could be able to donate as a living donor,” Julia Davis said, adding that Nathan had only told his sister of his plans because he “wouldn’t want to raise hopes and not be able to follow through.”
Luther Davis has long needed a kidney. He has been treated for high blood pressure since he was a child; the discovery that he also had been living with undiagnosed diabetes led to five and a half years of dialysis treatments.