The Commercial Appeal

There’s nothing wrong with the emotions you may feel

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FROM THE WRITINGS OF THE REV. BILLY GRAHAM TRIBUNE CONTENT AGENCY

Q: I am a very emotional person, but my husband is stoic and seldom can I know what he is thinking. In spite of having vastly different personalit­ies, we have been happily married for many years. Which way is the best? — E.C.

A: Emotions in themselves are not wrong or sinful. God wove various personalit­y traits into his created beings and often the difference­s complement one another. Some are quiet while others are talkative.

We shouldn’t despise or deny these difference­s. If we didn’t experience emotions, we couldn’t know God’s peace and joy. When Jesus was asked what the greatest commandmen­t was, he replied that we should love the lord our God with all of our heart, soul and mind (Matthew 22:37).

It may be surprising to realize that God experience­s emotion, but remember that we are all created in his image.

This is a staggering thought but true. How empty life would be without emotions!

The psalmist declared, “I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfull­y made” (Psalm 139:14). This does not refer only to the human body but everything about us — our minds and emotions. Each person is complex and while we may have challenges in understand­ing one another, God perfectly understand­s everything about us.

We must admit, though, that our emotions can become twisted and even destructiv­e, leading us to do or say things that are harmful to ourselves and others. We must rely on Christ to fill our minds with the things that please him and bring glory to him. This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.

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