Reader has too many passions

Dear Harriette: I am 23 years old, and when people ask me what I want to pursue in life, I am unsure how to answer. This confusion is not because I cannot find a passion, but because I have too many passions. None of them really relate, so I feel as though I cannot list them because it makes me sound scrambled.

My first passion is music. I played violin for eight consecutive years in middle and high school, and I want to perfect my skill and play professionally. Next, I love cooking and want to open a business one day with my family recipes perfected. However, I have no real restaurant experience and no consecutive culinary arts courses under my belt. Lastly, I want to study holistic medicine and become a practitioner who can help others heal naturally.

Each passion requires focus and attention, and I hate having to choose to explain what I want to do in my life.

— Passionate Thinker

Dear Passionate Thinker: You have three strong ideas. Choose to develop one at a time. You may want to look for work in a restaurant so you can learn the business from the ground up. In the beginning, just about any job could be OK. Meanwhile, practice your music and possibly start taking lessons again. Continue to read and do independent research on holistic care.

When you talk to others, lead with the restaurant. See if you get any traction. Give yourself time to build your knowledge base. You may be able to enjoy each of your interests at different stages in your life.

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