Travel isn’t an option for many

Dear Harriette: Ever since COVID-19 shut down the airports, my family and I haven’t traveled as much. We used to go all the time to Florida, Massachusetts and Maine. The time spent away from my hometown helped to clear my brain and recenter my thoughts. When I asked my mom about traveling, she said it wasn’t in this year’s budget. I know it’s selfish, but I was really counting on having some time to reflect in a different state and get away from my worries. What should I do? — Covid-19 Tales

Dear Covid-19 Tales: You have to realize that the effects of COVID-19 on many families was far greater than not being able to leave the house. Many families felt the impact in their wallets. Thousands of people lost their jobs or faced reduced incomes. Who knows what happened to your family, but trust that if your regular routine has been interrupted, it’s for a reason. As your mother told you, traveling is not in this year’s budget. Trust her when she tells you that. I’m sure it pains her to say it out loud, especially if it has been your norm.

What you can do to lighten your spirit is to get outside! In many states, you are now free to spend time outside without a mask. Explore your neighborhood, your city, your old haunts. Rediscover friendships that bring you joy. Don’t wallow in self-pity. Create happiness. You can do it!

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