MICHELLE OBAMA BOOK ADDRESSES FERTILITY, TRUMP

W A SHINGTON» Michelle Obama says she felt alone after a miscarriage 20 years ago, and she and Barack Obama underwent fertility treatments to conceive their two daughters, according to her upcoming memoir.

In some of her most extensive public comments on her White House years, the former first lady also lets her fury fly over President Donald Trump’s “bigotry and xenophobia” — dangerous, deliberate rhetoric, she wrote, that risked her family’s safety.

“For this,” she writes, “I’d never forgive him.”

But it’s her deeply personal account of her marriage to the future president that shed new light on the Ivy League-educated couple’s early struggle with issues of family, ambition and public life.

“We were trying to get pregnant and it wasn’t going well,” Michelle Obama, 54, writes in “Becoming,” set for release Tuesday. The Associated Press bought an early copy. “We had one pregnancy test come back positive, which caused us both to forget every worry and swoon with joy, but a couple of weeks later I had a miscarriage, which left me physically uncomfortable and cratered any optimism we felt.”

The Obamas opted for IVF, one form of assisted reproduction that typically involves removing eggs from a woman, fertilizing them with sperm in a lab, and implanting the resulting embryo. It costs thousands of dollars for every “cycle,” and many couples require more than one attempt.

Obama writes of being alone to administer herself shots to help hasten the process. Her “sweet, attentive husband” was at the state legislature, “leaving me largely on my own to manipulate my reproductive system into peak efficiency,” she said.

“Becoming” is one of the most anticipated political books in memory, ranking Friday at the top of Amazon’s best sellers. That’s often the case with the memoirs of former first ladies, including Hillary Clinton and Laura Bush. But Obama defied her exalted status in the annals of history by cultivating an image of a modern woman with whom many Americans would like to sip wine and chat. But until now, she’s not extensively shared so many details. Some family struggles, such as losing a baby, are known by millions of women.

“I felt like I failed because I didn’t know how common miscarriages were because we don’t talk about them,” the former first lady said in an interview broadcast Friday on ABC’s “Good Morning America” program. “We sit in our own pain, thinking that somehow we’re broken.”

Obama said she and her husband underwent fertilization treatments to conceive daughters Sasha and Malia, now 17 and 20.

She also writes about falling in love. The Obamas met at the Chicago law firm Sidley Austin LLP, and Michelle was skeptical at first. But she was then impressed by Barack’s “rich, even sexy baritone” and by his “strange, stirring combination” of serenity and power.