How “lunch shaming” is facing scrutiny around the country
NE WY O R K » Denying children a hot meal apparently isn’t a popular way for schools to deal with unpaid lunch money.
After a flood of angry Facebook comments and phone calls, a Rhode Island district last week abandoned its plan to serve cold sandwiches to students whose families owe money. “The outcry was global,” said Catherine Bonang of Warwick Public Schools.
Such practices aren’t new, but they are facing more scrutiny. Previously, students in Warwick with unpaid charges were served cheese sandwiches that are not on the regular menu, which made it clear who owed money, Bonang said. The district was trying to make it less obvious by switching to sunflower butter and jelly sandwiches, because those are offered as a daily option.
But the backlash prompted officials to go further and say all students would get the choice of a hot meal. A policy of not letting older students with unpaid meal charges take part in activities like dances and field trips also was scrapped recently.
It’s difficult to gauge the prevalence of “lunch shaming” among the nation’s thousands of schools. But in 2011, a majority of districts surveyed said they had unpaid meal charges, according to a study by the U.S. Department of Agriculture, which oversees the federal school lunch program.
Among those schools, serving alternative meals was common. Cheese or peanut butter sandwiches were cited as alternatives. Districts also reported taking other actions to recover costs, such as withholding grades.
New Mexico passed a law against lunch shaming in 2017, and several other states — including California, Iowa and Oregon — have followed suit. The laws generally prohibit practices such as stamping students’ hands or making them do chores, although serving alternative meals isn’t always explicitly banned.
A child can feel shame even if it’s not obvious to others why they’re getting a cold sandwich, said Jennifer Ramo of New Mexico Appleseed, which advocates against the practice.
After forgetting to pay for lunches one week, Aniece Germain said her son was given a sun butter sandwich in kindergarten last year. She said her heart broke when she picked him up at school, and he asked why she hadn’t paid for him.
She was also charged $2.50 for the sandwich, the same as for a hot meal.
“So the purpose of that is to humiliate the kids, shame the kids, to get the parents to pay,” said Germain, who lives in Cranston, R.I., not far from Warwick.
Cranston’s school district said it no longer serves alternative meals.