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Re: “Nextdoor — the social media app — is often quite evil,” June 13 commentary
Since Nextdoor’s many shortcomings, as described by Krista Kafer, are equally pervasive in other social media, the problem must have a common source. And so it does. Its users.
Like Kafer, I have also found my Nextdoor neighbors quick to blame and complain, share misinformation, and turn what may be passing stranger into something utterly threatening. Not surprisingly, the combination of our very human fascination with misfortune and the pervasive reach of social media often results in a toxic brew that amplifies fears, distrust and outrage.
Instead of abandoning Nextdoor, perhaps Kafer might consider wading into the fray: extending compassion where there is judgment, thoughtful critiques where there is misinformation, calm where there is fear, and gentle encouragement to consider things from a different point of view where there are signs of growing divisions. We do this to remind our neighbors of their good manners and of their role as members of a community in which we all want to feel safe and welcomed.
This is not to say there aren’t trolls (who must be ignored), but I’ve found the vast majority of folks on Nextdoor to be well-intentioned and actively seeking connection with those around them. We, therefore, owe it to ourselves, on social media and in real life, to respond in ways that provoke respect, kindness and goodwill. Let us choose to use that influence more readily.
R. Norman, Wheat Ridge