This 11-year-old sells cups of lemonade to buy diapers for single moms

Cartier Carey is spending is summer the way many merican children do - beind a lemonade stand. The 11-year-old boy ells the summertime stale from his front lawn in Hampton, Va., next to a paer sign that reads: “Raising Money for Single Mothers.”

Cartier, a rising sixthrader, told his parents in uly that he wants to help ingle mothers struggling fiancially during the coronairus pandemic.

Although Cartier’s parnts are together and acive in his life, “a lot of his riends have single moms,” aid Cartier’s mother, Britey Stewart, 30. “Through hem, he knows how hard t can be.”

Cartier explained, “It’s ust one of them, and they’re oing everything on their wn.”

With most schools and ummer camps shuttered ince March, pandemic parnting is a big load to carry lone.

But perhaps the biggest

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burden of the pandemic for single parents is the anxiety of contracting the coronavirus - and what it would mean for their children who depend on them exclusively.

The United States has the world’s highest rate of single-parent households: 1 in 4 children live with only one parent. In 80% of those cases, women are the sole caregiver.

Through his peers, Cartier has witnessed the unique set of challenges single parents face, particularly during the pandemic.

“One of Cartier’s closest friends has a single mom,” said Stewart, adding that the friend is often at their house while his mother is at work.

Cartier started the lemonade stand with the support of his parents, four younger siblings and a number of neighborhood children. All proceeds go directly toward purchasing diapers, baby wipes and other supplies for local single mothers in need.

Cartier and his friends have been stationed on his front lawn since mid-July, selling lemonade for a dollar, chips for 50 cents and candy for 25 cents most days of the week. Next to the snack station is a separate table, packed with diapers and wipes for parents to come collect.

“We didn’t expect it would take off so quickly,” said Stewart. “We raised $3,000 in the first three days.”

The family lives near a busy intersection, so passing motorists frequently visit the lemonade stand and neighbors stop by regularly, Stewart said.

“A lot of the time, people see the sign and want to donate,” she said. “Many will ask to buy a lemonade for a dollar, but they’ll usually leave $20.”

So far, the lemonade stand has yielded $7,500 enough to purchase approximately 27,500 diapers.

Every few days, Cartier and Stewart go to Walmart to buy supplies, which they’ve distributed to local shelters, churches and directly to women who have heard about the initiative and shown up. Shaniya Green, an 18-year-old single mother with a 7-month-old baby, works at a McDonald’s restaurant and struggles to pay for diapers. She has collected supplies from Cartier twice in the past month.

“It has been really helpful because I truly can’t afford all of this on my own,” Green said.

As many

as

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single mothers have shown up daily over the past few weeks, Stewart estimated, including one woman whose gratitude was captured in a video.

“You are helping so many people, you have no idea,” said the woman, through tears. “You’re an amazing young man, and you’re going to go far.”

People have heard about Cartier’s lemonade stand through word-of-mouth and social media, Steward said, adding that local news attention has raised awareness, too. Cartier’s lemonade stand is not his first effort to help people in need. In February, Cartier and his mother created care packages to distribute to the homeless, which included sanitizer, hand warmers, soap, tissues, snacks, water and other supplies.

“Cartier has always been involved in the community,” said his father, Anthony Carey, 32. “He’s always looking to help other people.”

A year ago, Cartier launched his own nonprofit organization called Kids 4 Change 757, which, through initiatives like the care packages and lemonade stand, encourages children to get involved and support communities in need. It is funded by donations.

Other children in the neighborhood have followed Cartier’s lead, putting their free time toward helping to run the lemonade stand and organize supplies.

“It fills my heart up to help these people,” said Jasmine Ballard, 19, who lives in Cartier’s neighborhood and has been helping him since July. “They cry when they hug us, and it feels so good to know that we can help them and their families.”

Beyond providing parents with critical supplies, Cartier said he hopes his initiative will alert the community about the struggles single mothers face during the pandemic.

“I really want to raise awareness,” said Cartier, who is attending school virtually this fall and will continue raising money for single mothers and other Virginia residents in need.

“I want to spend all my free time doing this,” he said.

So far, the lemonade stand has yielded $7,500 - enough to purchase approximately 27,500 diapers. Every few days, Cartier and Stewart go to Walmart to buy supplies, which they’ve distributed to local shelters, churches and directly to women who have heard about the initiative and shown up.