Stigma leads men to hide signs of mental health challenges

Also more likely to be emotionally aggressive

While mental health issues like depression and anxiety affect both men and women, studies have shown men are less likely to seek help or receive treatment. Research on this disparity often leads to the societal stigma of mental health.

Men may feel ashamed or embarrassed by their thoughts and feelings, influenced by longstanding cultural attitudes about gender and mental health, as shown in a 2016 study. In the study, more than 75% of respondents indicated they would feel disappointed in themselves or inadequate around other people if they were depressed.

The cultural idea of masculinity also deters many men from seeking help. Unfortunately, this reluctance to get help can have tragic consequences. According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, men died by suicide 3.63 times more often than women in 2019.

Men and women’s symptomatic differences

Recognizing signs and symptoms of mental health concerns is an important first step. This is particularly important because these issues may present themselves differently in men versus women:

• Individuals with depression may feel irritable, sad or have trouble concentrating, but because men are more likely to internalize their feelings, they can become angry or aggressive.

• Men tend to numb their feelings through alcohol or drug use more than women.

• A 2011 study published by the American Psychological Association found that women had higher prevalence of depression, anxiety, panic disorder and social phobia than men. On the other hand, men had higher prevalence of alcohol and drug dependence, and antisocial personality disorder.

• Women are more likely to withdraw when processing their emotions. Men are more likely to be impulsive, aggressive, coercive or exhibit noncompliant behavior when dealing with emotions.

Recognize signs of mental health issues

The cultural idea of masculinity deters many men from seeking help. Unfortunately, this reluctance to get help can have tragic consequences.

Each person is unique in the way they exhibit a mental health concern. Some men may not show any noticeable signs at all, while others may display several concerning behaviors. The National Institute of Mental Health lists the following signs of mental health disorders in men:

• Aches, headaches, digestive problems without a clear cause.

• Anger, irritability, or aggressiveness.

• Difficulty concentrating, feeling restless, or on edge.

• Difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much.

• Engaging in high-risk activities.

• Feeling flat or having trouble feeling positive emotions.

• Increased worry or feeling stressed.

• Misuse of alcohol and/or drugs.

• Noticeable changes in mood, energy level, or appetite.

• Obsessive thinking or compulsive behavior.

• Sadness or hopelessness.

• Suicidal thoughts.

• Thoughts or behaviors that interfere with work, family, or social life.

• Unusual thinking or behaviors that concern other people.

Individuals who recognize these signs in themselves or a loved one should talk with their health care provider. Those in crisis or at risk of self-harm can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800273-8255 for free, confidential support 24/7.