The Macomb Daily

Former friend doesn’t know the whole story

- Dear Abby Contact Dear Abby at or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

About 10 years ago, my longtime best friend, “Byron,” abruptly cut me out of his life. I never clearly understood why. I reached out to him on and off for several years without success. Then I ran into him, traded pleasantri­es and we followed up. He returned my email, we began communicat­ing again about things that mattered, and it appeared we were on the mend.

A short time later, my wife (divorced me and began a massive social media attack against me. Most of my friends saw through her lies. I took the high road and never said anything about her lunacy.

Then she ramped it up by going after some of the people she knew were important in my life, including Byron. Soon after, I heard she had her hooks in him and he stopped communicat­ing with me. My ex-wife has since passed away.

I have dreams that Byron and I are friends again, doing the things we used to do, and I would like to try “Rebuild No. 2” but don’t know where to start. He never got the full story, only the part that made me look bad. Do I mention my ex-wife’s lies, or do I just try and start over again? And if so, how? — Unfriended Again

in Michigan


True friends do not treat each other the way that Byron has treated you. They discuss their difference­s instead of cutting each other off. Your “friend” could have come to you after he was contacted by your ex-wife. He could also have asked some of your mutual friends if what she was spreading was true. Byron did neither. Go on with your life and don’t ever look back, or you will receive more of the same from this person.

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