The Macomb Daily

Abuser tries to turn over new leaf to save family

- Dear Abby Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

DEAR ABBY » My wife and I have been married for five years, with two children. I have been putting my hands on her in such a bad way that she’s saying we are no longer a family and she wants a divorce.

I’m currently going to church and Sunday school and Bible study. I will do anything and everything I can to get my family back because I don’t want to lose them. What can I do to get them back?

— Learning a Lesson

in Nevada

DEAR LEARNING » A good first step would be for you to gain some insight about what triggers you to act out violently. A course in anger management could help you break this destructiv­e pattern. Search online for a program near you. After that, if your wife sees you are making a sincere effort, she may trust you enough to risk reuniting. A warning, however: Do not pressure her. This will have to be HER decision.

DEAR ABBY » I have a new job in a small office. I have never been comfortabl­e meeting new people or learning a new job, so in order to appear friendly, I’d chime in to the office conversati­ons. Later, I found out the owner audio records the office. Everyone

else knew it, but I was NEVER informed. Abby, is it a common and legal practice for employers to bug offices? — Big Mouth in California

DEAR BIG MOUTH » This is a question you should ask an attorney who specialize­s in employment law. In several states, it is illegal for an employer to record conversati­ons without first informing all the parties involved. You should have been informed at the time you were hired that this was company policy.

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