What’s civility?

Civility is courtesy, or politeness. We have added a short explanation for each rule. Try to figure out what the rules mean before reading the explanation.

1. Every action done in company ought to be with some sign of respect to those that are present.

Treat other people with respect.

4. In the presence of others, sing not to yourself with a humming noise, nor drum with your fingers or feet.

Don’t make annoying noises when others are trying to talk and listen.

15. Keep your nails clean and short, also your hands and teeth clean, yet without showing any great concern for them.

Practice good hygiene, but don’t make a big deal out of it.

54. Play not the peacock, looking everywhere about you, to see if you be well decked, if your shoes fit well, if your stockings sit neatly, and clothes handsomely.

Don’t check yourself out in mirrors all the time, seeing how you look.

71. Gaze not on the marks or blemishes of others, and ask not how they came. What you may speak in secret to your friend deliver not before others.

Don’t stare at or ask about marks on other people, such as warts or freckles. And don’t tell your friend’s secrets to others.

76. While you are talking, point not with your finger at him of whom you discourse, nor approach too near him to whom you talk, especially to his face.

Don’t point at people while you talk to them, and don’t get too close.

96. It’s unbecoming to stoop much to one’s meat. Keep your fingers clean, and when foul wipe them on a corner of your table napkin.

Eat politely. Sit up straight, and use your napkin to wipe your hands.

100. Cleanse not your teeth with the table cloth napkin, fork or knife; but if others do it, let it be done with a pick tooth.

Don’t use objects to pick food out of your teeth. Use a toothpick if you must.