Fleeing the city? Here’s what to look for in a suburban house
Kristina and Grayson Dove enjoyed all the city life San Francisco hadtooffer from their two-bedroom condo in a highrise residential tower downtown. Great restaurants, nightlife, theater, music and arts events lay just outside their door. Kristina’s office was an easy BART stop away.
Then came March of 2020. The pandemic sent employees home to work remotely. The city rolled up its sidewalks and pulled the shades. And Kristina, an event and food director for Twitter, began working out of her bedroom.
“I didn’t leave the room all day,” she said.
In June, she had twins, which took over the second bedroom. Her husband, a biotech auctioneer, began taking calls in the living room. Without a yard or even a balcony, they rarely went outside. The dazzle of city life faded.
“Once COVID hit, the luster of the city was really gone,” Kristina said.
Thedovesbothgrew up in big cities; she’s from New York, and he’s from the Bay Area. The city felt like home to them. Until it didn’t.
“We saw an influx of petty crime and a loss of the culture that made the city so great,” she said. “Homeless encampments were growing because of the downturn in business. I no longer felt safe or welcome. All the things that keptushere—therestaurants, nightlife, art scene, music — were gone. The city became a ghost town.”
That change, the need for space and the fact that she no longer had to commute to work led the Doves to do what many families across America — those upended by the pandemic and reevaluating their lives — have done: They left the city for suburbia.
In December, the Doves moved 18 miles north to a five-bedroom, 4,800-square-foot twostory house on a near-acre inkentfield.
Their real estate agent Tracy Mclaughlin helped them find what Mclaughlin says more and more clients want today: “They were looking to get out of the city. They wanted walkability, a family home that was nice but not showy. They wanted a pool, a nice neighborhood and good schools.”
“Before we had no outdoor space at all. Now we have a pool. We’re barbecuing and love just being in the yard,” Kristina said. “My heart has really changed. I no longer have the stress of walking outside and worrying about who is around the corner.”
Mclaughlin, author of “Real Estate Rescue: How America Leaves Billions Behind in Residential Real Estate and How to Maximize Your Home’s Value” (Mango Media, April 2020), says the Doves have plenty of company.
“Because of COVID, many adults had an opportunity to live somewhere else and work,” Mclaughlin said.
Many formerly officebased workers, who temporarily moved out of cities during the pandemic, found they liked where they went better than where they were before, so they made the decision to pivot.
Many companies are accommodating the change long term. Once the pandemic lifts, for instance, Twitter is letting workers choose whether they want to work: in the office, from home or a combination. Kristina says she’ll likely opt for the hybrid plan.
“Because we can take our laptops anywhere,” Mclaughlin said, “that lets us work and live in places we never dreamed of. If people can still earn what they did in the city and enjoy some breathing room, they are not going
back. Cities will have to be clean and safe and beautiful for people to want to return or (those cities) will remain blighted.”
If the pandemic has a silver lining, Mclaughlin added, it’s that it made people try something different. Many, like the Doves, found another way of life that worked better.
Nationwide, the housing market has heated up as the pandemic has driven homebuyers to make permanent changes. Here’s what Mclaughlin said buyers are looking for:
INDOOR-OUTDOOR LIVING >>
“If they are going to move out of the city, they want to touch the ground,” Mclaughlin said. “They want yards, not elevated living, not decks or balconies. They want a place where they can entertain outside and enjoy outdoor recreation and feel safe. Swimming pools are huge.”
ROOM FOR EXERCISE >> Having a yoga studio or Peloton room is a big selling feature. When gyms closed, then reopened with only limited capacity, people began creating places in their homes to help them feel healthy.
WALKING TRAILS >> Homeowners want the ability to walk their dog outside with walking trails nearby. They don’t want to have to drive to a dog park.
SAFER NEIGHBORHOODS >>
“People can deal with a year of not going to restaurants or bars, but not with also having homes or cars broken into or homeless people living on their street,” she said.
WORKSPACE >> Even if it doesn’t have a dedicated home office, every home must have a place to work, preferably one with a view.
OUTBUILDINGS >> Sincethe pandemic, guest houses have become more desirable. Accessible dwelling units (ADUS) have been on the rise. Whether for boomerang kids or in-laws, they allow families to be close without living together.
SIMPLE TECHNOLOGY >>
Homebuyers want easy technology. They don’t want a remote to turn on their fireplaces. They don’t want crazy lighting systems. They want great internet, solid cell service and performance right away.
NO FIXER-UPPERS >> Buyers don’t want houses that need a lot of work, she said: “Buyers want turnkey. They don’t have the bandwidth to remodel. They want to buy a house where they can move in and feel good right away.”
Marni Jameson is the author of six home and lifestyle books, including “Downsizing the Family Home What to Save, What to Let Go” and “Downsizing the Blended Home — When Two Households Become One,” and coming in June “What to Do With Everything You Own to Leave the Legacy You Want.” You may reach her at marnijameson.com.