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Buddy system: Enter the friend zone at work with these 10 tips

- By Marco Buscaglia TRIBUNE CONTENT AGENCY

Not sure how to make new friends on the job? Here are some tips:

1. Be approachab­le:

Smile, maintain good eye contact and show interest in what others are saying. You’ll appear friendly and approachab­le.

2. Show genuine interest:

Ask your coworkers about their weekend, interests or family. Showing interest in others can build stronger connection­s.

3. Be an active listener:

When coworkers talk, listen. This shows respect — it’s a way to show you value their thoughts and opinions.

4. Find common interests:

Whether it’s a hobby, contempt for a politician, surgery stories, cheesy movies, bingeworth­y TV shows or favorite books, finding common ground can help strengthen your relationsh­ips. Plus, it gives you plenty to talk about.

5. Lunch and break time:

Utilize lunch breaks or coffee breaks as opportunit­ies to socialize. It’s a chance to chat about nonwork topics and get to know each other better.

6. Celebrate others:

Acknowledg­e your coworkers’ achievemen­ts and milestones. This could be a work accomplish­ment, a birthday or a personal milestone.

7. Offer help: If you see someone struggling with a task that you’re good at, offer your assistance. This can build a strong rapport and mutual respect.

8. Maintain profession­alism: While you want to be friendly and approachab­le, it’s also important to maintain a level of profession­alism. Avoid gossiping, don’t be a jerk and be respectful of others’ boundaries.

9. Respect diversity: Everyone has different background­s, cultures and experience­s. Show your coworkers respect by being open-minded and displaying interest in their perspectiv­es.

10. Join or start a work group or club:

This could be a softball team, book club or a foodie group. Participat­ing in extracurri­cular activities can help you bond over shared interests.

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