Belching disgusts a woman

I’m a woman in my mid-20s. About a month ago, I started seeing “Vern.” He was my first date through an online dating site, so I was nervous and then pleasantly surprised when he turned out to be charming, sincere, witty and just as good-looking in person.

Vern and I were enjoying a nice stroll after dinner, when all of a sudden, he belched. One time and I wouldn’t have even thought anything of it, but it happened again. For the rest of the night, he was belching once every five minutes. He didn’t say “excuse me” but just continued to talk as if nothing had happened.

This has happened a few more times. How do I bring this up? I’m not trying to let this ruin a potentially great relationship, but still, it grosses me out. Unexcused

Dear Unexcused: If Vern’s been an otherwise polite person, I’m guessing he didn’t say “excuse me” because it’s become so commonplace he hardly notices it or because he was praying you didn’t. There’s most likely an underlying medical reason for the excessive belching. Encourage him to talk to his doctor, more for his benefit than yours.

Dear Annie: Recently, you printed a letter about a co-worker’s odor. In the last sentence of your reply, you said, “To anyone thinking of skipping that prework shower, please don’t.”

Our world faces serious problems from global warming. If Americans shower almost every day and do so in hot water, they give rise to significant amounts of carbon emissions.

I shower about twice a week and shower only in cold water during about half the weeks of the year.

Granted, I am retired and do not need to be very often with other people in close quarters. Another measure I take to limit my carbon footprint is to set my home thermostat at 62 degrees in winter and 76 degrees in summer. Also, because I live near virtually all my frequent destinations, I can reach them by bicycle or on foot.

I am hoping that before you suggest any particular routines or behaviors, you will pause to consider their implications with regard to global warming. Cleaner Climate

Dear Cleaner Climate: You are right. My response was meant to be a general plea for personal hygiene, not a prescription for everyone to shower every day. By all means, folks should shower or bathe just as often as they need to in order to stay fresh. Thanks for raising the issue.

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