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OSU tight end Cassity will face brother, a Missouri State coach

OSU tight end Cassity will face brother Skyler, a Missouri State coach

- OSU Insider Jacob Unruh

STILLWATER — Braden Cassity’s cell phone recently lit up with a picture and message that made him laugh.

The image was of him on a video screen, lined up in his No. 90 Oklahoma State jersey during a game last season.

“Man, you’re looking small,” the message read. “You need to do some bicep curls.”

Ahead of this weekend’s big game, Skyler Cassity wanted to get inside his little brother’s head. Throwing a digital jab was all in good fun because the brothers are tight. They talk often. They love football. They hunt and fish together.

But Saturday will be different. They will be on opposite sidelines.

As the Cowboys prepare to host FCS opponent Missouri State inside Boone Pickens Stadium, there may be nothing more meaningful than a key matchup between family. The Cassity brothers will be foes — Braden the Cowboys’ backup tight end and Skyler the Bears’ outside linebacker­s coach.

Cassity vs. Cassity, as it’s billed by their family.

“We’re competitor­s,” Braden said. “That’s just how it is, always trying to compete no matter what it is.”

The siblings have been on opposite sides before. Twice, Skyler came away victorious against OSU as a graduate assistant at Texas Tech. Braden was in his redshirt season the first meeting and was on the field at times in the second.

The two have never gone directly against each other — until now.

And it’s on the same field they once roamed as young children.

Their father, Mike, was OSU’s codefensiv­e coordinato­r in 1999 and defensive coordinato­r in 2000, the final two years of Bob Simmons’ tenure. Their mother, Colleen Hartman Rambusch, worked for the Cowboys on TV and radio.

Now, the entire family will reunite as their long journey comes full circle.

“Obviously, it’ll forever be a part of our family,” Skyler said about OSU.

‘Everybody has a path’

Skyler had a vision in his young, 7year-old mind.

He moved one neighborho­od kid just a little. He placed another in a different spot.

His idea became a perfect football formation.

After Mike was hired at Illinois in 2001, Skyler designed plays with kids in the new neighborho­od while most children built Lego towers.

“He’s like in first grade,” Rambusch said. “He’s drawing up plays and would

sit and watch film.”

Skyler even designed a play and gave it to Illinois coach Ron Turner. It was so impressive that Illinois ran it in a game.

Growing up, Skyler loved football. He fell hard for lacrosse. He was also a math whiz.

It was still clear Skyler’s path was coaching.

He developed into a quarterbac­k at Riverwood Internatio­nal Charter School in Atlanta. His level of knowledge about the game was rare.

But before his junior year, Skyler underwent major surgery for pectus excavatum, a condition in which the breastbone is sunken into the chest. His football playing days were finished.

“It just wasn’t in the cards,” Skyler said.

But Riverwood coach Robert Ingram wasn’t letting Skyler get away, making him into a student coach.

That led Skyler to spurn attending OSU as an engineerin­g major. Instead, he became a student assistant and recruiting assistant at Auburn. He also played club lacrosse, a sport deemed medically safe.

“Everybody has a path,” Rambusch said.

Skyler moved to Texas State, where he went from defensive intern to graduate assistant in a year. He then spent three seasons at Texas Tech, working primarily with defensive backs, before joining the Missouri State staff last season.

With the Bears, Skyler’s path reconnecte­d with his past.

Missouri State head coach Bobby Petrino hired Mike Cassity as defensive coordinato­r at Louisville, where they won two conference titles in three years. Defensive line coach L.D. Scott played for Petrino and Mike at Louisville. Inside linebacker­s coach Reggie Johnson also coached at Louisville with the two.

Even defensive coordinato­r Ryan Beard was a graduate assistant under Mike at Western Kentucky.

“We’re all connected in some way,” Skyler said.

“You never know who’s going to cross paths or how you’re all connected, but the coaching game is a tight-knit group.”

‘ The right thing to do’

Skyler’s message was simple and direct, even for his fifth-grade pupil.

Braden needed to hit somebody. He needed to be tough on the football field.

“Dude, you gotta blow somebody up,” Skyler told Braden.

That flipped a switch inside Braden. When big brother spoke, he listened.

“My brother was one of my biggest motivators,” Braden said.

Braden was already bigger than most kids his age. He became a force on the defensive line.

Before high school, Braden and his mom moved to Austin. He enrolled at Westlake High, which produced NFL star quarterbac­ks Drew Brees and Nick Foles among other NFL talent. Braden played with former Texas quarterbac­k Sam Ehlinger, too.

Braden was a star defensive linemen. He excelled at lacrosse, too.

As a senior, he developed into the state’s defensive player of the year the same season future teammate and roommate Spencer Sanders was named the state’s offensive player of the year. That fall, Braden had 101 tackles, 15 tackles for a loss and 11 sacks.

“He had a work ethic,” Mike Cassity said. “Some guys just try to please coaches by staying extra and things like that. Braden was never like that. He just worked hard to improve himself.”

Braden ultimately chose OSU over Wisconsin — both schools his dad coached — without taking an official visit. He doesn’t remember living in Stillwater. He moved there when he was just 6 days old and left two years later.

“It’s the perfect school for him,” Rambusch said.

With the Cowboys, Braden has played in 24 games since redshirtin­g in 2018. He began 2019 as a defensive end but moved to Cowboy back — OSU’s tight end position — during the season.

“Just over time, it was the right thing to do,” Braden said.

It was a surprise to some at first. But few doubted Braden.

“I know my brother is one of those that’s willing to do anything for the team,” Skyler said. “It happens all the time in college football. My brother just happened to be one of those guys.”

At 6-foot-2 and 240 pounds, Braden has become a reliable blocker while working to improve his catching ability and route running.

He also finished his undergradu­ate degree in three years and is entering graduate school this semester. He was on the Academic All-Big 12 first team the past two seasons.

“I told him he’s there at Oklahoma State for three reasons,” Mike said. “No. 1, it’s to get a great education, which he made Academic All-Big 12. No. 2, you’re to excel at the highest level of Division I football there is.

“And No. 3, if No. 1 or No. 2 slip, I’m going to come take your shotgun, your boat, your fishing rods and everything.

“He’s upheld his end of the bargain.”

‘ The one that wins’

Braden expects his parents to wear orange. After all, he secured their tickets to the game.

But it’s not that simple. Rambusch plans to wear white and paint her fingernails both team colors. She and her husband, Bit, will sit with Spencer Sanders’ family, Braden’s girlfriend, Karoline, and her family, plus a few of Braden’s high school buddies.

“I’ll be rooting for both,” Rambusch said.

Mike wanted to wear an OSU shirt and a Missouri State hat, or vice versa. Both Braden and Skyler stopped that.

After 42 years coaching at 17 different universiti­es, Mike is ready to enjoy football from a different view. He plans to arrive early to join some friends tailgating.

Then he’ll settle down to watch a football game with the best of both worlds for an old coach. Two of his sons competing against each other. He cannot lose.

“People keep asking me who I’m going to cheer for,” Mike said.

“The one that wins. I really want them to do well.”

As for the brothers, it’s likely they’ll hug during pregame warmups. They’ll meet afterward and hopefully see family as well.

Skyler has been joking with his linebacker­s that their one mission is to make life hard for his brother.

“It’s funny,” Skyler said. “Obviously, I want what’s best for him, just not on Saturday.”

Braden feels good about Saturday’s chances. He just hopes then he can get some jabs back at his brother, finally avenging those two losses.

“I’m excited to get him back,” Braden said. “Definitely have a little chip on my shoulder.”

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 ??  ?? OSU tight end Braden Cassity, left, poses with his older brother Skyler in 2018. Skyler, then a graduate assistant for Texas Tech, is the outside linebacker­s coach at Missouri State. The two brothers face off Saturday in Stillwater. PHOTO PROVIDED
OSU tight end Braden Cassity, left, poses with his older brother Skyler in 2018. Skyler, then a graduate assistant for Texas Tech, is the outside linebacker­s coach at Missouri State. The two brothers face off Saturday in Stillwater. PHOTO PROVIDED
 ?? ROB FERGUSON/USA TODAY SPORTS ?? Oklahoma State Cowboys tight end Braden Cassity, middle, smiles with teammates after the win over West Virginia last season.
ROB FERGUSON/USA TODAY SPORTS Oklahoma State Cowboys tight end Braden Cassity, middle, smiles with teammates after the win over West Virginia last season.
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