The Palm Beach Post

Fraternity video exposes our crumbling decency

- Kathleen Parker She writes for the Washington Post.

PAWLEYS ISLAND, S.C. — Courage isn’t required to condemn the Syracuse University chapter of the Theta Tau fraternity for simulating a sexual assault on a disabled student.

Video of this ape-ish display, now in wide circulatio­n, should horrify anyone with an ounce of decency. That is, assuming people still recall what decency is.

After the clip was released Saturday, university Chancellor Kent Syverud proclaimed that the video was “appalling and disgusting on many intersecti­ng grounds.” Indeed, sir. Quite, quite.

In the clip, we see a group of apparently drunk males surroundin­g an individual seated in a chair, who, his head bobbing, is pretending to be disabled. One of the lads can be heard saying that the reason the supposedly disabled person is drooling is because “he’s retarded.” The video proceeds to show fraternity brothers approachin­g the seated fellow’s face in sexually aggressive maneuvers. In an earlier video released last week, a Theta Tau pledge is shown kneeling before a frat brother, who extends a penileshap­ed “something” as if a lance to a knight’s shoulder. The pledge repeats as instructed that he’ll keep his heart filled with hatred toward blacks and Jews. (The video’s poor quality makes it difficult to follow, but this is how it has been described.)

The foregoing would seem ample justificat­ion for the expulsion of these students for disgusting behavior unbefittin­g the school’s motto: “Knowledge crowns those who seek her.” The university has begun disciplina­ry proceeding­s and referred at least one of the videos to the district attorney.

Let the record show that the national Theta Tau organizati­on has condemned the actions of the now-expelled Syracuse chapter, whose members insist they were merely satirizing political correctnes­s and spoofing all things deemed off-limits.

If you, dear reader, are thinking that the world has gone barking bonkers, then you might be one of The Decents. I’m reminded of novelist Cormac McCarthy’s “The Road,” a deeply disturbing story about a post-apocalypti­c America in which survivors have sorted themselves into either cannibaliz­ing criminals or, in the case of a father and young son, guardians of the last burning ember of civilizati­on.

These two are among the last of a very few who remember what civilizati­on looked like and what it takes to “carry the fire”: vigilance, dedication, unwavering courage, discipline, loyalty and commitment.

Campus protesters and others have described the Syracuse videos as proof of the toxicity of fraterniti­es. It is tempting to agree, but a fraternity gone bad is a symptom of a larger cultural disruption. The causes are many — from the high rates of broken families and fatherless homes to omnipresen­t pornograph­y (and celebrity porn stars) to rampant narcissism (and the accompanyi­ng selfie-obsession) — to name a few.

It’s an old saying, but charity begins at home, meaning that children learn the values of decency — do unto others — from their parent-leaders within the family’s miniature social system. It’s a big lift to fix, but history has determined that solid families best serve the community interest.

Courage, it seems, is needed now to do the hard thing at Syracuse and expel the boys.

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