Graduation thoughts

I had the privilege of representing the Board of Regents for the Connecticut State College and University System this week, at the Northwestern Connecticut Community College Celebration.

It was a video made public at the exact time graduation would have occurred at the Warner Theatre. With tears in my eyes, I watched the video, celebrating outstanding students who have persevered during this most challenging period. They overcame obstacles personally and professionally while continuing their education to reach their goal.

As Dr. Seuss said, “I’m sorry to say so but sadly, it’s true that Bang-ups and Hang-ups can happen to you.” Oh my, not sure if even he could have imagined this unprecedented environment. Despite it all, the guidelines for success for these exceptional students are still relevant.

Set your priorities. Education does not end with commencement; rather it is the beginning of a lifelong journey that requires setting your goals.

If you commit to something, complete the task despite the challenges. Even if it’s not your life dream, finish what you start and learn from it. Then move on without burning bridges.

Do what you love, and love what you do. You bring to the table many talents from previous jobs and life experiences. Identify the skills and talents you possess and think about how you can transfer them to a job and career that you will love.

Know that life is a roller coaster with highs and lows. Build on the positive rather than the negative. Although it is sometimes hard to fathom, we will recover from this period. It will be a different world, but we will overcome the fear, anxiety, and sadness.

Be persistent. Move forward despite challenges holding you back. See the possibilities in the good rather than fear of failure. There are options for all situations and predicaments.

Surround yourselves with positive people. Positive relationships are most important in the realm of things. You will find mentors and new best friends along the way but always remember family and the community that guided you.

Share your talents. The most precious gift you can give another is your time and attention. It does not matter whether you have little ability or great ability. What counts is what you do with what you have.

Remember that we walk this way only once. Do it with integrity, selflessness, good health, and belief in a higher power. Above all, do it with a sense of humor.