We all need a little Bedford Falls
Hands down, my favorite holiday film is “It’s A Wonderful Life.” It has obviously withstood the test of time, having just celebrated the 75th anniversary of its release. For me, small-town life has always had appeal. I live in a small town and love that feeling of familiarity and charm. When I watch George Bailey mill about in Bedford Falls, I feel a sense of serenity and joy. Especially this time of year.
I have always loved Christmas time. Beautiful lights adorn the neighborhoods, Christmas tunes play everywhere with their message of love and peace and nostalgia. It seems that the spirit of goodwill rises to the surface this time of year and generosity abounds in many places, even in these difficult times in which we live.
I am overwhelmed by the acts of generosity and kindness of so many people around me, especially in a time when there is violence, sadness and illness in the world. But you can choose to focus on the good, especially this time of year. You don’t have to look far to find those who spread kindness and joy.
I know one couple in particular who has a tradition which warms my heart. They are not welloff but live comfortably, with modest savings, usually living paycheck-topaycheck. Some years are better than others, as is the case for us all, but regardless, this couple maintains their tradition.
Each year, they go out to eat just once during December. There is no particular restaurant or meal, it is completely random. But no matter what the bill, they tip their waitress at least 100%, usually more. They don’t wait around to see a reaction or to get a thankyou; it is completely anonymous.
They look forward to this every year. It is a small gesture with a great impact. Maybe that money is the difference between a family having gifts under the tree or having a good meal.
This couple likes to imagine what wondrous effects their gift might have. This truly random act of kindness inspires me. What if everyone helped just one person in need? What a kinder and better world this would be.
As Christians, we rejoice at the birth of a baby boy and are filled with His love. And no matter your beliefs, it is true that there is a sense of magic this time of year. You can look at the last few days of what has been yet another very difficult year, you can mourn the losses you may have suffered during 2021, but you can also look with hope to 2022. May we all enjoy a better year, happy and healthier, and may the joy of life return to us all.
No matter where you live, I hope the spirit of Bedford Falls is with you, because truly it is a wonderful life.