Home for the holidays? See if loved one needs help
With the aroma of comforting meals still filling homes and strings of colorful lights still hanging to brighten up winter’s dreariness, it’s one of the most wonderful times of the year when family members and friends, both near and far, gather to ring in the New Year and spend a much need break of quality time together!
As these merriments have just concluded and many prepare to gather again for New Year’s Eve, it is an ideal time for becoming reacquainted with senior loved ones. Not only is this a time to share stories, laughter and memories, but the season provides an opportunity to notice if cognitive and physical changes in older adults have become increasingly apparent.
It is especially important heading into the New Year to talk with seniors to see how they are really feeling, especially if you see alarming signs in your older friend or family member. Although challenging, remember that discussing support for your older loved ones will ultimately allow them to keep their independence and help them live in the place they love, longer!
As you reflect on your visit with a senior friend or family member or prepare to gather again for New Year’s Eve, it’s important to take note of their physical and mental health, as well as their living situation. Below are some indicators to help determine if they need household support on a regular basis:
• Weekly pill dispenser is still full
•Expired medication bottles
• Untidy living space
•Declining personal grooming and hygiene
•Cabinets aren’t well stocked
• Spoiled food in refrigerator
• Confusion and forgetfulness • Changes in mental status or changes to their personality
• Neglecting property (dents/scratches in the car, burn or scorch marks on pots or kitchen countertops)
• Frailty and unsteadiness
• Unopened mail piling up
•Unlocked doors and windows
• Vagueness in answers to questions around recent doctor appointments, preparing meals, etc.
• Feeling that something is “off” with your aging loved one
While this can be an emotional and challenging process for everyone involved, home care agencies offer the support, tools, resources and care needed to help your loved one live in the place they love, while giving you peace of mind that they are receiving the compassionate care they deserve.
From all of us at Griswold Home Care, Happy Holidays!