The Ukiah Daily Journal

Dating on a budget

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Wallet a little thin these days? With some creative thinking and a relaxed, openminded attitude, you can plan a fantastic date without breaking the bank. Think about it this way: Going frugal is a way to make sure you're with someone who values experience over material things!

TAKE A STROLL >> Whether it's in a park, downtown or anywhere else, simply walking without a specific destinatio­n is a great way to gauge compatibil­ity with your date. Can you engage in conversati­on? Are your pauses awkward, or do you exchange smiles and comfortabl­e glances?

TRY A PHOTOGRAPH­Y TOUR >> Grab your phones or a couple of disposable cameras, then roam around and snap photos. It's ideal if you both enjoy creativity and fun. Capture each other in silly poses with various expression­s. Photograph objects big and small from unique perspectiv­es. Plus, you'll have a romantic memento of the date!

HEAD OUT FOR A HIKE >>

If you and your date enjoy nature, this makes for an inexpensiv­e outing. Your only expenses are snacks and the gas to reach the trail. Bring water, and dress in layers. Stay on track. While impressing your date with survival skills might seem appealing, it could turn the experience awkwardly stressful.

COOK DINNER FOR YOUR DATE >> A homemade meal can be both inexpensiv­e and delightful. For instance, preparing gnocchi requires only flour and potatoes. Finish with garlic butter and add a simple salad and bread. Light the candles and you're all set for a romantic dinner!

TAKE IN A BALLGAME >> Check out a local minor league sports team game. Tickets for these events are typically just a few dollars and offer a fantastic way to enjoy your afternoon or evening.

EXPLORE THE WORLD OF BOOKS >> Invest some time at a nearby bookstore or library. Discuss your preferred books, and peruse art and photograph­y collection­s while sharing your preference­s. Share a laugh or two. Leaf through architectu­re books, exchanging thoughts on preferred house designs. Feel free to be as whimsical or intellectu­al as you wish!

PLAY POOL OR DARTS >> Most likely this will put you in a bar, so opt for happy hour to score affordable drinks and snacks while having a blast.

PICK-YOUR-OWN >> Visit a farm where you can harvest berries, pumpkins or fruits, or maybe even try your hand at milking a cow! Bonus points if you incorporat­e that freshly picked produce into a homemade meal.

GO WINE TASTING >> While some wineries provide compliment­ary tastings, others may charge a nominal fee. Know before you go, then enjoy yourselves. If by chance you receive free wine glasses, there's the perfect keepsake.

EXPLORE THE ZOO AND MUSEUMS >> Most are affordable as date destinatio­ns where you can enjoy exploratio­n. Many of these venues offer free admission days. Check the websites. You may be pleasantly surprised.

ENJOY LOCAL MUSIC >> If you reside in a medium or large city, it's likely you have access to numerous bands that host free shows or charge a modest $5 cover fee. Do the research and check it out. Chances are, fantastic entertainm­ent options will turn up.

SIGN UP FOR A DANCE CLASS >> Numerous dance studios and instructor­s provide compliment­ary or budget-friendly beginner group sessions. Explore styles like swing, salsa or, if you dare, tango!

HEAD TO THE GYM >> Often gyms provide compliment­ary day passes so prospectiv­e members can sample their facilities. Have some fun by challengin­g each other with weight training, attending a yoga, aerobics or spinning class together, and enjoying some time around in the pool. You may need to listen to a sales pitch, but doing that together may give you something to discuss later.

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