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had left the home prior to their arrival.
“Our thoughts and prayers go out to the families affected by these senseless and horrific acts,” said Montgomery Township Police Chief Scott Bendig. “It is heartbreaking that it takes incidents like these to shine a light on the ongoing societal problem of domestic violence.”
Help is available
In the wake of the three incidents, Lansdale Borough Police Chief Mike Trail had his department issue a release on their Crimewatch platform to draw attention to the issue of domestic violence, while providing links and phone numbers to countywide services and assistance available to victims.
“Obviously the events over the weekend led me to reaffirm that victims of domestic violence should seek out opportunities to get help. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about, and there is no shame in seeking help,” Trail said. “The tragic events this weekend in Falls Township, Newtown, and Lower Moreland, exemplify that when these issues arise, they need to reach out and seek help. There are a lot of organizations willing to help.”
All three police chiefs said instances of domestic violence can carry a certain number of hurdles in relation to victims coming forward, be it personal embarrassment, a belief that domestic violence is a private family matter, or the hope that the abuse will cease and the relationship will improve.
But the latter is usually not the case, they said, and that is why they have trained officers to aid those victims who come forward seeking to end the cycle of abuse.
“It’s a vicious cycle where a lot of the victims feel trapped, so they don’t feel that they’re able to confront their abuser and instead they rationalize that it won’t happen again,” Trail said. “But we know that the cycle of violence progressively gets worse over time.”
“If your partner has hit you before, realize they will hit you again. It is never easy, but you have to get away from the situation,” Tierney added. “You are important — don’t let anyone tell you anything different.”
Beyond the initial response to the incident, police pointed to several available resources in Bucks and Montgomery counties created explicitly to aid victims of domestic violence via resources designed to help them identify and escape dangerous situations and relationships. Those resources include the Victim Services Center of Montgomery County, the Women’s Center
of Montgomery County, A Woman’s Place in Bucks County, and Laurel House in Montgomery County.
Statistics show issue is pervasive
According to data provided by Stacy Dougherty, deputy director of Laurel House, and Jennifer Locker, interim executive director of A Woman’s Place, one in four women and one in seven men ages 18 or older in the United States will be injured as a result of intimate partner violence, and nearly half of all LGBTQ+ individuals will experience domestic violence in their lifetime.
Additional statistics provided include:
• On a typical day, there are more than 200,000 calls placed to domestic violence hotlines nationwide.
• A victim of domestic violence will leave the relationship an average of seven times before they leave for good.
• There were 105 fatalities attributed to domestic violence in Pennsylvania in 2023, with 70 of them including the use of a gun.
• Women between the ages of 18 and 24 years old are the most likely to be abused by an intimate partner.
“There are many barriers and obstacles that prevent victims of domestic violence from coming forward, and each are unique to their situation,” said Dougherty. “Not having access to financial support, being isolated from friends and family, having their immigration status tied to their abuser, and the fear of what will happen to themselves or their loved ones if they try to leave, are just a few of the examples as to why a victim may
be unable to leave.”
Dougherty added that even in circumstances where a victim does decide to leave an abusive relationship, the danger may increase over the months that follow.
“It’s important to know that the most dangerous time for a victim of domestic violence is up to a year after they’re left their abusive relationship,” Dougherty said. “When the abuser loses that power and control over their victim, they will go to extreme measures to regain it.”
“It takes a lot of safety planning and thought for someone to [leave the relationship] safely, which is why it’s so important to connect them to a trained advocate,” Dougherty added. “Instead of asking ‘why do they stay,’ we should be asking ‘how can we make it easier for them to leave?’”
Locker echoed Dougherty’s sentiment, adding that additional issues can arise once a victim leaves an abusive relationship, including parenting, housing, and financial strains.
“Even after safety planning and exiting the relationship, survivors are faced with barriers like having to be a single parent, navigating childcare and employment maybe for the first time, and trying to find a safe and affordable place to live,” Locker said.
Due to the complexity of domestic abuse instances, organizations like Laurel House and A Woman’s Place provide a comprehensive list of services, beginning with immediate crisis intervention and including long-term services aimed at helping victims heal from the trauma and rebuild their lives. Other services include emergency safe housing, crisis counseling,
The property is farmed by Pennypack Farm, which is a separate organization from College Settlement of Philadelphia. Pennypack Farm’s collaborative programming with College Settlement teaches thousands of campers and students about where their food comes from and fosters an appreciation for farms and farmers.
“Organizations like College Settlement of Philadelphia and Pennypack Farm are training the next generation of farmers, a crucial part of making sure our workforce knows more than just where our food comes from, but also how to grow this food and get it to consumers,” DiBello said.
Twenty-four acres of the parcel are maintained under
support groups, children’s advocacy, accompaniment through the criminal and Protection from Abuse Order processes, rapid rehousing, and legal representation.
“We all deserve to feel safe in our families and relationships,” Locker said. “If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to your local domestic violence agency. You are not alone.”
Where to get help
If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship or is the victim of domestic violence, help is available.
In Bucks County, A Woman’s Place has a 24hour hotline at 800-2208116, which can provide confidential information, referrals, safety planning, and additional services.
In Montgomery County, you can contact Laurel House at 800-642-3150 or the Women’s Center of Montgomery County at 800-773-2424.
“I’ve seen the cycle of domestic violence broken because these organizations come into the fray, and they are able to intervene and support the victims,” Trail said. “These organizations have done a great job of helping liberate men and women from being victims of domestic violence.”
Visit A Woman’s Place, Laurel House, and the Woman’s Center of Montgomery County by clicking their respective links, to gain access to additional resources and services.
lease to the Pennypack Farm and Education Center and the surrounding natural land trust, according to county officials.
“The preserved land at College Settlement is uniquely positioned to tie into the county’s climate and sustainability goals. When people can purchase and consume locally grown food, consumers are supporting biodiversity and reducing the journey that the food takes from farm to table,” said Montgomery County Commissioners’ Vice Chairman Neil Makhija in a statement. “Pennypack Farm raises a variety of organically-grown produce on this land, much of which is distributed through a community-supported agriculture program to more than 400 households.”
Visit montgomerycountypa.gov/Farmland-Preservation-Program for more information.