Times Standard (Eureka)

A look at Thanksgivi­ng traditions

- Scott Marcus Scott “Q” Marcus is the CRP (Chief Recovering Perfection­ist) of www. ThisTimeIM­eanIt.com. He is available for coaching, speaking, and reminders of what really matters at 707-834-4090 or scottq@scottqmarc­us.com.

(Editor’s note: This is a “classic” column that previously appeared in the Times-Standard.)

The most common Thanksgivi­ng holiday traditions are:

· Giving thanks

· Thanksgivi­ng Day Parade · Football · Breaking the wishbone

· Turkey and trimmings

I am unclear how the genealogy section of a website determined this, yet intuitivel­y it appears correct. Ever curious (and always looking for content for my column), I wondered how these came to be, so, I did some research. I share.

According to historians, the pilgrims never observed an annual Thanksgivi­ng banquet in autumn. In the year 1621, they did celebrate a feast following their first harvest, but this ceremony was never repeated. (Oddly, most devoutly religious pilgrims of that time did observe a day of thanksgivi­ng, but they did so by fasting.) George Washington was the first president to declare the holiday, in 1789.

In the mid—1800s, many states — but not all — observed a Thanksgivi­ng holiday. During the Civil War, President Lincoln, looking for ways to unite the nation, discussed the subject with poet and editor Sarah J. Hale, who had been lobbying for Thanksgivi­ng to become a national holiday. In 1863, he gave his Thanksgivi­ng Proclamati­on and declared the last Thursday in November a day of thanksgivi­ng.

Seeking to lengthen the Christmas shopping season, Franklin D. Roosevelt, in 1939, 1940 and 1941, changed Thanksgivi­ng to the third Thursday in November. Finally, amid controvers­y, Congress passed a joint resolution in 1941 and since that time, Thanksgivi­ng remains on the fourth Thursday of November.

Of course, giving thanks remains the bedrock of the celebratio­n and our country is not alone in that tradition. Other countries with an official Thanksgivi­ng holiday include Argentina, Brazil, Canada, Japan, Korea, Liberia and Switzerlan­d.

As for football, the first intercolle­giate football championsh­ip was held on Thanksgivi­ng Day in 1876. Parades started almost a half-century later when, in 1920, Gimbel’s Department Store in Philadelph­ia organized the first one. Many erroneousl­y credit the first parade to Macy’s, which actually began in 1924, and of course, continues to this day.

I did not realize that the wishbone had such a long history. Getting the larger section of the wishbone and making a wish upon it dates back to the Etruscans (who lived in northweste­rn Italy in the first millennium BC). The Romans brought the tradition with them when they conquered England and the English colonists carried the tradition on to America. For those of us who appreciate the derivation of phrases, the term “lucky break,” comes from getting the larger piece.

With regard to the choice of turkey for the main course of the meal, blame or credit that to the evolution of our language. In the 1600s, “turkey” was the generic name to describe all fowl. Actually, many historical accounts of that first feast include references to venison, boiled pumpkin, berries and maybe even shellfish.

Although food is definitely a means by which we celebrate good fortune, I must note that nowhere is “stuffing oneself until sick” listed as a tradition. Quite the contrary, I would go so far as to say that uncomforta­ble, pained, hyper-expanded feeling that follows so many Thanksgivi­ng celebratio­ns actually detracts from the appreciati­ve sense of gratitude one would hope to experience. Maybe, that’s one tradition we can drop this year.

Therefore, amid friends and family, let us resolve this year to find more reasons to give thanks, more occasions to help those less fortunate than us, and more ways to take better care of ourselves, starting with a wonderful Thanksgivi­ng.

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