Family fun can light up the eight nights of Hanukkah
Hanukkah may be a relatively minor holiday in the grand scheme of Judaism, but it’s one of the most widely known. A celebration of the rededication of the temple in Jerusalem – and the miracle of one day’s worth of oil lasting for eight – Hanukkah falls in late November or December, depending on the year. This year, Hanukkah starts on Dec. 18 and ends Dec. 25. • Whether you’re a new parent who is just embarking on celebrating with your baby, or you’re a seasoned parent who needs some fresh ideas, we’ve come up with a variety of ways to light up your festival of lights. Here are 11 ways to celebrate Hanukkah with kids.
1. Read children’s books about Hanukkah
There’s nothing like a good, age-appropriate book to get kids excited about a holiday. Jewish families can sign up their children for a free monthly Jewish-themed book subscription through PJ Library (pjlibrary.org). Over the years we’ve received a number of books that have become family favorites, including “Queen of the Hanukkah Dosas” and “The Ninth Night of Hanukkah.”
2. Get a flame-free children’s menorah
You can’t celebrate Hanukkah without a menorah, but actual fire combined with small kids is a recipe for injury. Get little ones their own wooden menorah that they can safely “light” every night, and keep the adult menorah out of the reach of small fingers. My kids loved putting the wooden candles in the candle holders and would help sing the prayers when they lit the wooden flames. ($26 at amazon.com)
3. Make Hanukkah latkes and cookies
It wouldn’t be a Jewish holiday without a selection of delicious food, and Hanukkah is no exception. In addition to traditional latkes, or potato pancakes, we enjoy making Hanukkah cookies. A three-piece set of Ann Clark cookie cutters is a great addition to your baking cabinet, and kids will have fun rolling out and decorating the festive menorah, dreidel and Star of David shapes. ($12 at amazon.com)
If your kids are old enough to read independently and know their way around a kitchen, they’ll love the “The Children’s Jewish Holiday Kitchen” cookbook. It has a plethora of easy and delicious recipes, plus stories from the author’s childhood as well as step-by-step illustrations.
4. Get Hanukkah in a box
If you’re looking to simplify your life and order a box full of everything your kids need to celebrate Hanukkah, Days United has you covered. Order their Hanukkah box – or opt for a Jewish holiday subscription instead – and your kid will receive a box full of handson activities to celebrate the festival of lights.
This year’s box includes a paintable menorah and a make-your-own dreidel craft, among other goodies. My kids always enjoy the activities that come in the boxes, and I like that they change them up every year so you don’t end up with duplicates. ($53 at daysunited.com)
5. Make your own Hanukkah candles
This is an easy craft that kids of all ages will enjoy making – plus you’ll use the candles for the eight nights! We’ve been using the Make Your Own Chanukah Beeswax Candles kit from The Dreidel Company for the past five years, and it’s a quick activity that yields plenty of (slightly wonky) candles. ($9 on amazon.com).
6. Play Hanukkah games
One of my favorite things to do during Hanukkah is play dreidel. We’re big fans of this game because it’s family-friendly gambling and a Hebrew lesson all in one.
Traditionally, chocolate coins, or gelt, are used as capital, but you can use pennies or poker chips instead. In our house, we have a rule that whoever takes the pot has to put a portion of their winnings into the Tzedakah box to give to charity.
If your kids are too young to play dreidel, opt for Hanukkah bingo instead. It’s cute, colorful, and lots of fun for pre-readers and grandparents alike. You can find dreidels and bingo cards online.
7. Invest in matching Hanukkah pajamas
Until recently, Jewish families who wanted to participate in the matching holiday pajama trend didn’t have a lot of options. Thankfully, there are now a lot more Hanukkah-themed options available. We are obsessed with our Little Sleepies matching Hanukkah pajamas, because they’re soft and comfy, as well as festive. (From $34 at littlesleepies.com)
8. Get yourself a Mensch on a Bench
Don’t want to miss out on all of the Elf on the Shelf fun, but you don’t celebrate Christmas? Get Mensch on a Bench! This little felt Mensch watches over the menorah during the eight nights of Hanukkah and makes sure that everyone in the family does a seasonal good deed. Just like the Elf, he gets moved around each night and loves to make kids laugh, so you’ll have to come up with some creative ways to bring the holiday joy. ($55 at amazon.com)
9. Give gifts
While Hanukkah is not “Jewish Christmas,” it’s still fun to give gifts, especially if you have little kids. For kids who love to build, you can’t go wrong with a classic set of Legos. ($35 at lego.com)
Got a doll lover instead? Gift them with Rebecca Rubin, the American Girl Doll who is Jewish. Your kiddo will love having a doll who celebrates the same holidays they do, especially if you add on a doll-size menorah and dreidel set. ($151 at americangirl.com)
10. Do some good
While it’s nice to receive, it’s even better to give, and a significant part of Hanukkah is charitable giving. If you’ve been wanting to participate in volunteer projects but weren’t sure how to find one that’s kid-friendly, Alltruists is an excellent option. The innovative company enables families to participate in volunteer opportunities right from the comfort of their own home, thanks to their subscription boxes. Centered around a specific theme, each box partners with an established charity and includes activities to help kids learn, connect, act and give.
We love the Support a Refugee box that’s in partnership with Miry’s List, and tasks kids with putting together a welcome package for a new refugee child’s arrival. (From $29 at alltruists.com)
11. Share your Hanukkah traditions with friends
Get into the spirit of the holiday season by sharing your family’s Hanukkah traditions with friends and neighbors. Whether you host a Hanukkah dinner and let your kids teach their friends how to play dreidel, or deliver boxes of Hanukkah cookies to the local fire station, Hanukkah is about spreading joy and celebrating a miracle, and who doesn’t need more of that?
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