✤ Become a people-magnet by projecting “popularity” traits!

People-magnets typically possess three party-perfect traits, notes Boothman: curious, welcoming and creative. “Just pick the one that comes naturally to you and concentrate on that.” If you tend to be curious, for example, instead of asking yes or no questions like, ‘Are you having a good time?’, ask open-ended ones like, ‘ This is my first time here for the holidays. Which sights should I see?’ If you identify more as welcoming, “get to the party early. That way, you can greet other guests as they arrive.” As for creativity? “That means making your interactions more memorable, whether you tell a joke or wear a fun, festive sweater that captures others’ attention.” Also captivating: simply smile! It’s proven to boost your mood and lift the spirits of others in seconds, notes Boothman. “When you enter a party smiling, people are instantly drawn to you.”