Dancing dads: The new rage on social media
Dads don’t usually get a diva moment. Deadbeat dads, Disney dads, dad jeans – our dad-related lingo betrays a none-too-flattering assessment of the men who raised us. This also extends to Dad’s musicality. It is a truth universally acknowledged that one of the dorkiest things a dad can do is dance, especially in public.
Yet in some bright glades of the Internet, dancing dads are all the rage. (See, for instance, the hilarious father-daughter wedding-dance medleys on YouTube.) This summer, the dancing dad has emerged as the surprise darling of social media.
He’s come to the rescue, the way dads do, just when we need him the most. At a time when all the news feels especially bad, he’s swooped in to buck us up, make us laugh and show us what love looks like.
Goodness knows, we could use more dancing dads.
The latest family man to move us with his moves is Kennith Thomas. At the end of July, Thomas, a 34-yearold father of four, posted a cute video of him and his baby son on Instagram and Facebook that quickly went viral, drawing millions of views and eventually landing Thomas on Fox News. What made it so special? Dad is dancing for an audience of one, his little boy, watching from his crib at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. Kristian has leukemia, and had just finished his first round of chemo. Dad dances for joy, but it’s not simply a dance of release. It’s a papa’s pas de deux. He’s drawing Kristian into it.
Thomas, a choreographer who runs the Level Dance Complex in Pennsauken, New Jersey, pumps his shoulders and whirls his elbows around with ease. But what gets you, more than his skill, is the intensity of his focus on Kristian. He locks eyes with his son, and Kristian returns his gaze with a look of sober appraisal. Soon, the little boy breaks into delighted applause and openmouthed kudos. He even follows along, waving his plump little hands on the beat and wiggling his toes.
The song they’re dancing to is “Level Up,” an infectious new release from R&B singer Ciara. She reposted the video for her more than 19 million Instagram followers, and since then, there has been no stopping it. (She also recently visited the family at their dance studio to swivel through her own dance for Kristian.)
Kristian faces some tough challenges – he also has Down syndrome – but “he’s a little fireball. He’s always energetic,” Thomas said, laughing with pride, in a recent interview. “He’s taking it like a champion. He’s very, very strong.”
Thomas spoke from Kristian’s hospital room while the boy napped; he and his wife, Josilyne, were back for the second round of chemo. A few days ago, they learned that the leukemia was in remission. Still, the 16-month-old faces more weeks of chemo – more catheters in his chest, more tests, more hospital stays.